It seems like every time I have sex, especially someone new, I get paranoid for the next few days because of fear that I may have got them pregnant. The deal is though, I've always used a condom, and have never had unprotected in my life. Condom has also never busted, it did slide off once, but it wasn't far and she was on top so its pretty much impossible. But still in the back of my mind I can't help but think that theres always a possibility. I guess my main thing is that I know i would definitly not be ready for a kid at this age and because I go to school and that would totally dik me over. Anyone else ever get like this.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what the hell is wrong with me?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
wear smaller condoms....
ha, they are the normal size condoms, i guess she was just riding it too hard, and because we kept goin for a little bit after i busted. Not a good idea. Not to mention she said afterward that she is on birth control. I just always think of the one in a million chance happenign to me. Oh well i'll be fine.
diablo
Master Don Juan
AE...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Derek Flint
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No, no, no - do not double bag it!Originally posted by mrmoe
Hm, I've always felt safe with one. If you put one on correctly, you don't have a whole lot to worry about. You can always double-bag it next time!
Breakage is more likely when using two.
this frequently happens to me as well. i always seem to be a bit nervous until she gets her period. And by nervous i mean punching her continuosly in the stomach. in all honesty, things are fine, condoms are 99.9% effective and the pill is 99.9% too, if you get her pregnant, play the lottery for me later.