what the HELL is wrong with me??? I am SO GOOD, yet I am SO BAD at the same time!!!

[skip2mylou781]

Seriously,

I seem to develop one-itis SO QUICKLY for SO MANY DIFFERENT GIRLS.....sometimes for more than 1 girl AT THE SAME TIME. I feel this obsession/anxiety take over whenever I start to feel anything for a girl, where I am excited, nervous, infatuated, and feel slightly on edge (and put together, all these feelings do not total happiness for me)........I feel really good for periods of time, and for bigger periods of time, I feel slightly depressed/worried (for no reason other than my own paranoia). BEFORE ANYONE GIVES ME ADVICE, LET ME LET IT BE KNOWN, THIS IS SOMETHING REALLY WEIRD BECAUSE......

a) I spin plates (always have between 3-5 girls I am seeing/dating/fvcking)
b) I have sex often, with different girls, and its always good
c) I play girls REALLY badly (multiple gf's at the same time, no girls know about each other, ect ect)
d) I have a good life outside of girls (nothing that should make me weak or depressed)

BUT

i always seem to develop one-itis for certain girls really quickly (aka after a date or 2 if all goes well).......and just for example, just 2 days ago i met a girl, we liked each other, i slept over, we fcuked and made plans for thursday. Things went VERY WELL, and shes a 9/10 in my books. For some unknown reason, I AM WORRIED because I called her earlier today and also texted her yesterday so its basically been 24 hours since i heard from her.......i DO NOT KNOW WHY I AM WORRIED, but I am, and I shouldnt be. WTF IS GOING ON WITH ME??

this seems to happen more often lately for some reason........its like simply because a girl is beautiful i start to develop feeings too fast despite being such a fvcking player.

How do I control my goddamn emotions????

 

[Flabbergasped?]

One-itis with multiple girls isn't one-itis, it's AFC.

I think the problem is, your standards have been too low for too long. After boning several worthless girls after a few days, you've figured that's the norm, and when someone with brain cells comes your way, it takes you aback.

Don't get phased, and follow the advice I'm sure you're already familiar with (unless you've been a keyboard jockey for the past few months). We all have our bad moments

 

[ChrizZ]

Seriously,

I seem to develop one-itis SO QUICKLY for SO MANY DIFFERENT GIRLS.....sometimes for more than 1 girl AT THE SAME TIME. I feel this obsession/anxiety take over whenever I start to feel anything for a girl, where I am excited, nervous, infatuated, and feel slightly on edge (and put together, all these feelings do not total happiness for me)........I feel really good for periods of time, and for bigger periods of time, I feel slightly depressed/worried (for no reason other than my own paranoia). BEFORE ANYONE GIVES ME ADVICE, LET ME LET IT BE KNOWN, THIS IS SOMETHING REALLY WEIRD BECAUSE......

a) I spin plates (always have between 3-5 girls I am seeing/dating/fvcking)
b) I have sex often, with different girls, and its always good
c) I play girls REALLY badly (multiple gf's at the same time, no girls know about each other, ect ect)
d) I have a good life outside of girls (nothing that should make me weak or depressed)

BUT

i always seem to develop one-itis for certain girls really quickly (aka after a date or 2 if all goes well).......and just for example, just 2 days ago i met a girl, we liked each other, i slept over, we fcuked and made plans for thursday. Things went VERY WELL, and shes a 9/10 in my books. For some unknown reason, I AM WORRIED because I called her earlier today and also texted her yesterday so its basically been 24 hours since i heard from her.......i DO NOT KNOW WHY I AM WORRIED, but I am, and I shouldnt be. WTF IS GOING ON WITH ME??

this seems to happen more often lately for some reason........its like simply because a girl is beautiful i start to develop feeings too fast despite being such a fvcking player.

How do I control my goddamn emotions????

Keep yourself busy. There is more to life than chicks...

 

[skip2mylou781]

hmmm i seem to be far far from AFC and i basically run my game to the point where i get layed pretty fast no matter what girl it is. But then I always seem to get these feelings for almost every single girl that i fcuk.......it musta been at least 4 just in the last month too!!!

Some of the ones i fvck are slightly worthless that is true, but I been with enough good ones (hb8+) to not develop oneitis when one comes along, so I dont get why this happens to me so damn often!

usual process of oneitis for me:

1)have a date or couple of dates
2)lotsa fun, lots of cuddling/kissing, and good sex
3)sweet talk, all the good stuff, girl says she really likes me
4)I develop oneitis
5)girl either ignores me away or we simply cut contact
6)I move on to the next girl and it repeats

bottom line - i get laid, but end up feeling oneitis and eventually (whether after 2 days, 2 weeks or 2 months) lose the girl

 

[squirrels]

d) I have a good life outside of girls (nothing that should make me weak or depressed)

For some unknown reason, I AM WORRIED because I called her earlier today and also texted her yesterday so its basically been 24 hours since i heard from her.......i DO NOT KNOW WHY I AM WORRIED, but I am, and I shouldnt be. WTF IS GOING ON WITH ME??

These two items are contradictory. Choose one.

By the way, there's nothing wrong with developing "feelings" early. But developing feelings of worry and insecurity is not the result you want, most likely.

 

[wayword]

A test of PUA skills is how many girls you can lay.
A test of DJ skills is how long you can keep her.

What's been your longest relationship so far?

I think your neuroticism is due to the fact that you cannot keep girls and they are the ones dumping you - and this has become your sticking point, no matter how many girls you lay.

 

[Flabbergasped?]

Just because you get laid doesn't mean you're not AFC. We all have some AFC in us, and that's what needs to be improved.

This is what seems to be the problem. You're changing as the relationship progresses. The player attitude that you have at the beginning is what attracts the girl (and why you end up making out, fvcking, etc.), but then you become sentimental, emotional, needy, get one-itis (adjectives that are totally contrary to what attracted the girl in the first place), and she freaks out and starts ignoring you.

This tends to happen if you use the DJ mentality as a means to an end (the end being pvssy, of course). Once you get laid, you drop all DJ skill that you've acquired and turn on the pansiness. Don't let that happen. Keep yourself busy, see other people, etc. If she wants a relationship, and you officially start dating, then you can let her monopolize your "girl" time, but not your life. Before then, she's just a girl you slept with, but a girl nonetheless. Nothing should change.

 

[skip2mylou781]

I end up losing the girl based on how I act when I do not even see her

so I may act really sweet/possibly needy when we talk, but when we hang out again, I am back to acting like a player.......its like I lose the girls due to how I act when I am not around them.

 

[skip2mylou781]

the girl i was just worried about just called me - she said she cant wait till tomorro and she wants to fcvk me tonight too.........proving my point, WHY DO I WORRY FOR NO REASON?

like seriously, any way i can get help for this kinda useless paranoia??

 

[Faded Image]

The reason you feel this way is because you don't know what you want.


You really need to take a break from women and this site for awhile to concentrate on what you actually want.

 

[Sean O]

^^ That's good advice.

 

[KillaCam]

I seem to develop one-itis SO QUICKLY for SO MANY DIFFERENT GIRLS

It's not one-itis if it's more than one girl is it?

 

[L777]

despite being such a fvcking player.

Be honest mate, the inclusion of this phrase is the real reason for this post, I mean how are guys that you've never met gonna help you with your emotions?

Sorry if this is seen as flaming or whatever. But please skip, change the f.uckin record. If this was true, surely you WOULDN'T feel the need to state it all the time.

 

[Production6257]

YES L777! YEEEESSSS! It's good to see that someone else realizes the completely, blatantly obvious: skip gets absolutely no a$$. All of the bragging also leads me to believe that he is extremely insecure. It's also possible that with the exreme amount of bragging he has done about his obviously false accomplishments, he's actually starting to believe what he is saying. Keyboard jockeys like skip are half of what's wrong with this forum. And for all you people who actually believe his BS, may God have mercy on your souls. Yea, you can call this a flame if you want, but honestly this guy deserves to be flamed.

 

[squirrels]

YES L777! YEEEESSSS! It's good to see that someone else realizes the completely, blatantly obvious: skip gets absolutely no a$$. All of the bragging also leads me to believe that he is extremely insecure. It's also possible that with the exreme amount of bragging he has done about his obviously false accomplishments, he's actually starting to believe what he is saying. Keyboard jockeys like skip are half of what's wrong with this forum. And for all you people who actually believe his BS, may God have mercy on your souls. Yea, you can call this a flame if you want, but honestly this guy deserves to be flamed.

LOL...sometimes I wonder if ANYONE on here "gets ass."

 

[DarkLight]

lol... Skip dude, you crack me up!

I could have told you not to sweat the "time" it took for her to just get back to you. But the thing is with you... your such an extreme character.

Just look at the kind of reactions you get from all the peeps here.
Look at the titles of your threads.
... there all so intense! lol

I got a question for you G'...
You ever been in love? And experienced the LTR sharing it?

The only issue I see is this...
You can't exhale fast enough... and all that energy instantly amplifies into this kind of manic'ness. Forget about whether its "AFC" or not. Just see it as a calling to relax more into yourself. When you start realizing this higher DJ path... this intensity will turn into a more constant expression of your love for all these babydolls. And that will in turn allow you to relax more, knowing through feeling... that all is good, and you have a great abundance of DonJuan beauty to overflow.

Next time such feelings arise, in one of these episodes. Try just breathing...
...and allowing the ladiesman love to overflow, and re-integrate you.

See it as the energetic alchemy of AFC to Pimp'

Its a good sign that this is happening to you. Its simply new levels of the DJ energy you have yet to integrate. So its still a manic-freak type thing, that you percieve as "AFC" episodes.

Alls good... relax into it, and absorb its energy into greater suave'
Its all in the breath playa'

 

[wayword]

The reason you feel this way is because you don't know what you want.

BS, I already told him what his problem is.

He gets his self-esteem from the women he lays. He validates himself through sex with hot girls. He's basically like a crack junkie always needing his next hit to keep him up. Tht's why he can't go for any length of time without reassurance from one that he is attractive and worthy (by her liking him).

 

[skip2mylou781]

YES L777! YEEEESSSS! It's good to see that someone else realizes the completely, blatantly obvious: skip gets absolutely no a$$. All of the bragging also leads me to believe that he is extremely insecure. It's also possible that with the exreme amount of bragging he has done about his obviously false accomplishments, he's actually starting to believe what he is saying. Keyboard jockeys like skip are half of what's wrong with this forum. And for all you people who actually believe his BS, may God have mercy on your souls. Yea, you can call this a flame if you want, but honestly this guy deserves to be flamed.

im sorry jealous virgin, do u feel better now that uve called me a fake like all the other virgins?

 

[L777]

im sorry jealous virgin, do u feel better now that uve called me a fake like all the other virgins?

Come on skip, I ain't stupid, you ain't stupid, you posted this thread to show off - don't insult me by denying it or taking the piss out of others.

Plus you said you were leaving this board...whatever happened to that?

 

[skip2mylou781]

actually, i posted this thread cuz i wanted a solution to my problem of for some reason always being paranoid despite having success....and a couple people pointed it out pretty well actually

meanwhile someone like you continues to contribute NOTHING to the discussion.........how many troll posts where u are being completely and totally useless have u had anyway????

everything u post is "u lie, u fake, u kjb, im a virgin so i hate u for bragging"