What the hell is with this girl?

[*Salas*]

If a girl shows immense interest, by:

-) Literally saying "you should take my number" when you didn't ask
-) Starting conversations with you in person when you don't really even know her
-) Staring at you then smiling and laughing when you look at her
-) Texting you with a ton of emojis and lots of words
-) Tells your female friend that you're the cutest

what does it mean when like four months later she:

(- Doesn't respond after short convo of three text messages
(- Puts no work into her text messages

BUT

-) Still strikes up conversations with you first
-) Laughs at pretty much everything you say
-) Still pretty much has that read where you know she likes you
-) Flirts with you
-) Will talk to people around you but not you directly (as if like ignoring you purposefully )
-) Is mean to you in that teasing way that girls love to do

Its not hard to tell she likes me, but why the change in behavior?


During the four month period I:

-) Flirted with other girls in front of her
-) Didn't go up to talk to her even though I saw her
-) Told her to go to a school football game to hangout which she DIDN'T

Is she trying to play it cool, or downplay her interest? Because that's exactly what I did when she showed me interest. Its like the more other girls I talked to in front of her the more reserved she became..

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Youre playing the game instead of actually taking action on her. Pull yourself together and actually ask her out instead of being covert about it.

 

[BookWorm]

Dude, you need to take action! Chatting with a girl for four months with no action only leads to a loss of interest. You asked to a football game once, which means absolutely nothing. You need to get her out on a real date a build a physical connection between you two.

I think your next step is to stop texting her so much and actually ask her out. Ask her to coffee, take her ice skating, do SOMETHING with her.

 

[Man on Fire]

ENGAGE PHYSICALLY

It sounds like you are doing the same things I did often in high school. I didn't engage physically. I dragged these things out over months until the girl became bored and moved on. You are in high school. High school will go fast. You should be making your move and learning from mistakes at a brisk pace.

Guys like you, who are getting signs of interest from a female need to get things physical. It sounds like you are doing great otherwise! Let us know how it goes.

 

[Ashx88]

your awesome man,make her to come back of you, show your interest on her, and let her know you are everything for her and she is nothing without you,
make it simple, everything comes back of you,

 

[devilkingx2]

can you offer an explanation as to how it's been 4 months and you still haven't gotten anywhere?

you only asked her out once in 4 months? wtf?