“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what the hell is up with this weird chick..........please help

Lost In the Seas

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this girl and i used to have attractions and attachments towards eachother although we didn't offically go out, it all ended a few months ago though, and then we basically stayed being friends, but the zone we are in is still isn't that clear and defined

i went cold to her and we didn't communicate or go out for a month or so, i started going out with her and her friends just recently, and it seems quite obvious that she is always trying to make me jealous and such, like hugging her male friends, playing around with them right in front of me, and i caught her looking back at me while doing the stuff to see what my reactions are

She would also go against me like when i need to borrow money from her, she won't give it to me no matter what, or refuse to share candies or popcorns with me during a movie when she gives them to everyone else........

usually when we hang out, we just tease and neg hit eachother a lot, we would kick and punch eachother, etc.......it's kinda like a pair of primary school boy and girl fighting eachother......

and beside these, she would also do prank calls to me........... =-=
for the last two weeks she would call me, and when i listen to the phone she would go silent and hang up, and lately she is telling her friends to pretend to be other ppl that i know and started calling me, just last night she did 4 prank calls to me in a row.................when i asked her what's going on she would deny the fact that she was behind the calls

and in school she's more weird........when we see eachother in corridor, she would either say nothing to me, or she would call me an idiot in a slightly playing aorund way, or she would hide from me and try not to be seen by me.............once in lunch i heard from her friend that she asked a friend of mine where i was at lunch, and when she found the room i was chilling in she was too scared to go in, instead she dared one of her friends to say something to me and they all ran away.........

what in the world is she doing............
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I'm a little old for this forum, but this thread caught my eye. She is being immature. My guess is she is only 15 or 16, maybe younger. Tell her you're not going to put up with it anymore, and it's either the way you want it to be between the two of y'all, or nothing at all--including the friend zone.
 

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SHE"S TRYING TO PLAY GAMES!!

Act like you don't care about her, when she flirts in front of you with other guys and you two looked at each other, you should have just laughed at her.

Anyways play games on her, like flirt with ohter gilr , pretent she's not there, ignore her.

AND WHATS WITH HER GAY A$$ PRANK CALLS, THERE NOT EVEN PRANK CALLS.

GO to a soundboard, and call her up.

Play games on her.
http://soundboards.com/ <--- Us Miss Cleo teh phycique lady (fortune lady thats always on tv) its so funny that their talking back when its a computer that talkin to them!!:crackup: :crackup:

http://soundboards.com/?view=38
 

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any fool knows she likes you. the prank call thing.....maybe she even loves you.

makeout with her, and get some.
 

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nice guy is gone how did u know she's younger? ya she's only 14, and im 16

LOL LMAO the soundboard lol thx a lot now i can get back at her and her stupid friends

ok so if she likes me should i just go for the kill ignoring all the games, ask to be alone with her and close in with a kiss
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, the kiss part is all about timing my friend. Don't just go in for a kiss. Be sure the setting is right for the kiss.

Example

Wrong setting: storm outside, ambulance sirens around, and too many people around (your not in a wedding, why do you need people watching you kiss her?).

Right setting: good weather outside, overall quiet, few people around, in a park or somewhere away from the crowd of people trying to look.:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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hahaha... about the "storm outside"... i can use that to my advantage... my and my brother and the girl im talking with... love the movie "the notebook".

when shes not with us... me and my bro say i should use the line "it's still not over"... and kiss her...

you'd have to know the movie inside and out to understand...
 

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im gonna ask to go to her house alone and hoped that her aunts don't come back before we finish make out

hmm.......are you guys sure if she likes me? u know it will be akward if she doesn't and pushes me away when im hugging her playing her hair starring straight into her eyes, distance between the lips dwindle...........

and if she does like me is there any chance she may reject the kiss for other reasons?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She would also go against me like when i need to borrow money from her, she won't give it to me no matter what, or refuse to share candies or popcorns with me during a movie when she gives them to everyone else........"

To be honest with you, you need to build her anticipation some more. Keep it a bit mysterious to her that you have feelings for her. What this girl is doing is "mixing" signals. She seems like she doesn't like you because she won't share with you....but then again you think she likes you because she is acting so awkward towards you. From that quote above, that tells me that the time would be very wrong for any kiss :down: . You have to make her want you more and more. Just keep doing what your doing. She is showing signs of a little girl that likes a guy. Remember back when you were a kid and the one girl that messed with you the most to "grab your attention" had a crush on you, but you ignored it? well that created a mystery which made her like you. Same thing goes for this. Keep the mystery up and please don't give up that kiss easily....keep us updated.:cool:
 

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well ya i tease and neg hit her a lot too, but if i keep playing games like that would she gets bored eventually?
 

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
well ya i tease and neg hit her a lot too, but if i keep playing games like that would she gets bored eventually?
She won't get tired of it. But, she will try to draw some conclusion about you. It'll keep her guessing because she won't know anything. Teasing her is a good idea, but sometimes act nonchalant and mysterious as if there is other life out there. Just mix it up for her, it should create a challenge.:cool:
 

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
well ya i tease and neg hit her a lot too, but if i keep playing games like that would she gets bored eventually?
She won't get tired of it. But, she will try to draw some conclusion about you. It'll keep her guessing though (which is a good thing) because she won't know anything for sure. Teasing her is a good idea, but sometimes act nonchalant and mysterious as if there is other life out there. Just mix it up for her, it should create a mystery and challenge. After you build up that tension in her, you then may kiss her. But let us know before you do anything like that.:cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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