this is fvckin crazy... i've never had this happen to me before. i was at a huge party on saturday, a fundraiser for my college (which i have recently graduated from), and i saw this girl there. we made eye contact a couple times earlier in the night, and she was looking at my painting (it was to be auctioned off later on.)
after my painting was auctioned off, she came up to me and said that it was awesome and i shook her hand. then i went away and got a drink, and wandered around the building as i hadn't had a chance to check it out earlier.
i decided that she seemed fairly interested in me, so i started passively looking for her, thinking that if i didn't find her, it wouldn't be such a big deal.
i did find her eventually, and went up to her and asked her name and shook her hand again. she told me her name and grabbed my hand, telling me to follow her. she was walking somewhere with her female friend. she introduced me to her friends and eventually suggested that we go for a walk. she mentioned that she had wanted to meet me before, but i had seemed kind of shy, and she was glad that she found me again (haha, i found her.) i asked her how long she had been wanting to meet me for, and she said "oh, i guess around two years." of course, i thought to myself "holy shiat what the fvck", and we kept walking around.
eventually we went outside for a smoke, and we had a conversation about what she liked, what motivated her, and where she wanted to go in life. not much talk about me, though, which is good.
at the end of the evening, we went and "danced", which consisted of her holding on to me and laughing at all the pretentious bastards at the event. she kissed me a couple times on the cheek and i asked her what she was doing after the party. she said nothing, and i suggested that she come to another party that i was planning on going to after the event. she agreed, thought that would be fun.
my sister was at the event as well, so after we found her we got out of there.
i should say that the girl invited me for breakfast the next morning with a guy friend of hers (note: not boyfriend). i said i'll think about it.
anyway, when we were in the lobby, waiting to leave, i pulled a couple AFCish moves out of fvcking nowhere and told her that "this [the situation we were in] has never happened to me before." and "what the ****, why do you like me?" she responded by saying that i was beautiful and "****ing awesome." it obviously didn't turn her off, though, as we will see.
so, we hopped in my sister's car, myself and the girl, and almost immediately began making out. fun times. i'm sure we made some small talk, but i can't remember, as i was drunk and confused, ie. my brain was clouded with the thought of "whoa dude, what the fvck... this is awesome."
so, we finally get to the other party, and we spend the whole time kissing and groping each other - at one point she stuck her hand down the back of my jeans and squeezed my bare ass. she ribbed me about having holes in my boxers, saying "that's okay, though, i don't mind" and i asked her to prove it - she stuck her hand back down and squeezed and said "it doesn't matter". after a couple minutes i stuck my hand down the back of her skirt and told her i was just reciprocating for what she had done earlier.
jesus, this is getting long. sorry. i'll end this quickly
she wanted me to go home with her that night, but i refused, i didn't want her to do something she would regret - effectively sabotaging any chance of an LTR. she understood and told me that she would give me a call the next day to go for breakfast. she entered my number into her cell and we dropped her off at home.
she phoned the next morning, but i was still asleep. she left a message with my roommate, giving me her cell phone number. i actually heard the phone ring when she called, but to be honest i didn't really feel like getting up to go to breakfast. i phoned her back about an hour later, and told her that i didn't want to go for breakfast because i was feeling like shiat. she said she thought that that was what i was going to say, and she asked me to phone her later so we could hang out. i said okay and hung up. that was yesterday.
you're probably wondering why i'm posting this - "fvck you mosaic, you've got it made" etc., but i'm afraid that this girl is going to be a clingy psycho later on in the relationship. are there any warning signs? has anybody gone through a similar experience to find that the girl turned out to be a psychotic hellbeast who sharpens knives as a hobby?
also, when should i phone her? wednesday? she seems fairly interested in me, so i'm thinking that i can hold off a tiny bit longer on the telephone call, say till thursday, just to make her nervous and wonder if i'll ever call again.
thanks for reading this and i look forward to your responses!
edit: i had forgot to mention that this girl is extremely sexy, an 8 at least.
after my painting was auctioned off, she came up to me and said that it was awesome and i shook her hand. then i went away and got a drink, and wandered around the building as i hadn't had a chance to check it out earlier.
i decided that she seemed fairly interested in me, so i started passively looking for her, thinking that if i didn't find her, it wouldn't be such a big deal.
i did find her eventually, and went up to her and asked her name and shook her hand again. she told me her name and grabbed my hand, telling me to follow her. she was walking somewhere with her female friend. she introduced me to her friends and eventually suggested that we go for a walk. she mentioned that she had wanted to meet me before, but i had seemed kind of shy, and she was glad that she found me again (haha, i found her.) i asked her how long she had been wanting to meet me for, and she said "oh, i guess around two years." of course, i thought to myself "holy shiat what the fvck", and we kept walking around.
eventually we went outside for a smoke, and we had a conversation about what she liked, what motivated her, and where she wanted to go in life. not much talk about me, though, which is good.
at the end of the evening, we went and "danced", which consisted of her holding on to me and laughing at all the pretentious bastards at the event. she kissed me a couple times on the cheek and i asked her what she was doing after the party. she said nothing, and i suggested that she come to another party that i was planning on going to after the event. she agreed, thought that would be fun.
my sister was at the event as well, so after we found her we got out of there.
i should say that the girl invited me for breakfast the next morning with a guy friend of hers (note: not boyfriend). i said i'll think about it.
anyway, when we were in the lobby, waiting to leave, i pulled a couple AFCish moves out of fvcking nowhere and told her that "this [the situation we were in] has never happened to me before." and "what the ****, why do you like me?" she responded by saying that i was beautiful and "****ing awesome." it obviously didn't turn her off, though, as we will see.
so, we hopped in my sister's car, myself and the girl, and almost immediately began making out. fun times. i'm sure we made some small talk, but i can't remember, as i was drunk and confused, ie. my brain was clouded with the thought of "whoa dude, what the fvck... this is awesome."
so, we finally get to the other party, and we spend the whole time kissing and groping each other - at one point she stuck her hand down the back of my jeans and squeezed my bare ass. she ribbed me about having holes in my boxers, saying "that's okay, though, i don't mind" and i asked her to prove it - she stuck her hand back down and squeezed and said "it doesn't matter". after a couple minutes i stuck my hand down the back of her skirt and told her i was just reciprocating for what she had done earlier.
jesus, this is getting long. sorry. i'll end this quickly
she wanted me to go home with her that night, but i refused, i didn't want her to do something she would regret - effectively sabotaging any chance of an LTR. she understood and told me that she would give me a call the next day to go for breakfast. she entered my number into her cell and we dropped her off at home.
she phoned the next morning, but i was still asleep. she left a message with my roommate, giving me her cell phone number. i actually heard the phone ring when she called, but to be honest i didn't really feel like getting up to go to breakfast. i phoned her back about an hour later, and told her that i didn't want to go for breakfast because i was feeling like shiat. she said she thought that that was what i was going to say, and she asked me to phone her later so we could hang out. i said okay and hung up. that was yesterday.
you're probably wondering why i'm posting this - "fvck you mosaic, you've got it made" etc., but i'm afraid that this girl is going to be a clingy psycho later on in the relationship. are there any warning signs? has anybody gone through a similar experience to find that the girl turned out to be a psychotic hellbeast who sharpens knives as a hobby?
also, when should i phone her? wednesday? she seems fairly interested in me, so i'm thinking that i can hold off a tiny bit longer on the telephone call, say till thursday, just to make her nervous and wonder if i'll ever call again.
thanks for reading this and i look forward to your responses!
edit: i had forgot to mention that this girl is extremely sexy, an 8 at least.
