"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What the hell does this mean??????!?!?

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I ask for a date kind of disguised and she says this

Her
i dunno
Her
i got heaps 2 do and i dunno wen its all happenin
Me
im making time for you so you can make time for me on monday or tuesday
Her
well i gotta do sumthin that i cant just snob off and i dont no wen its happening so yeh
Me
and care to tell me what that wud be
Her
just sumthin verrrrry important to me and im not missing it 4 anything
Me
ok fair enough ill cya on either monday or tuesday
..

Nothing really happened after that point.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you want the honest truth or the possibility?

Truth: Sounds like she's not interested.
Possibility: She actually has something to do and is not joking. But the since she did not elaborate means its likely the Truth option.
 

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LegendBoy said:
I ask for a date kind of disguised and she says this

Her
i dunno
Her
i got heaps 2 do and i dunno wen its all happenin
Me
im making time for you so you can make time for me on monday or tuesday
Her
well i gotta do sumthin that i cant just snob off and i dont no wen its happening so yeh
Me
and care to tell me what that wud be
Her
just sumthin verrrrry important to me and im not missing it 4 anything
Me
ok fair enough ill cya on either monday or tuesday
..

Nothing really happened after that point.
she is not intrested!

sorry!
 

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Sounds like a flake.....Lack of intrest.....Next.....Sorry man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LegendBoy

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Ye maybe so...

I am just gonna forget about this *****. Thanks for what yous have said. Worth noting her friend keep asking if I like her not. Though if she aint man enough to go out waste of my time.
 

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Just give her the cold shoulder for a week. Then maybe ask again.....See how she reacts. Another no will put you at ease for it being a defo NO.
 

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oh by the way i approached her and talked a little too. and she also has given me the mob number. But until she comes back asking or giving some damn good signs ****kk it.
 

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LegendBoy said:
I ask for a date kind of disguised and she says this

Her
i dunno
Her
i got heaps 2 do and i dunno wen its all happenin
Me
im making time for you so you can make time for me on monday or tuesday
Her
well i gotta do sumthin that i cant just snob off and i dont no wen its happening so yeh
Me
and care to tell me what that wud be
Her
just sumthin verrrrry important to me and im not missing it 4 anything
Me
ok fair enough ill cya on either monday or tuesday
..

Nothing really happened after that point.
:cuss: :cuss: :cuss:

Come on dude!!! She tells you she is busy and you come out with a total AFC line like "im making time for you so you can make time for me on monday or tuesday"

You migh as well say "please, please, please go out with me! I have kept both days free to make sure one of them suits you. You are SOOO imporatant to me and I need you !" :mad:

Try this next time:

Her: i got heaps 2 do and i dunno wen its all happenin
You: ha. you're not very organised are you??? :p No worries though, i'm actually busy till next week then if you cant make Monday. So I guess if I'm free, we'll have to catch up then.

Always make your self look busy and make her feel that you are squeezing her into your busy schedule.

Unfortunately, because of your extreme AFC behaviour, you need to let this one go.

Rinse, repeat.

Good luck
 

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1) Learn how to ****ing spell.

2) Men don't ask for a date "kind of disguised". Men grab their balls and go "B!tch, meet me at XXXX on XXX".

3) Asking chicks out over MSN is beyond lame.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is textbook case of "I'm not interested!" Get it?:wave:

- She said "I'm busy"

- She didn't counter offer

- She can't even manage to tell you what she's busy for. :eek:

Damn, the only option you leave to the girl is saying in your face "Get lost! I'm NOT interested. I tried to be nice but you just don't get it!"
:kick:
 

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Ask a disguised question - get a disguised response.
 

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flexion_ said:
Ask a disguised question - get a disguised response.
Oh, that's fukking awesome. I just realized that's what I've been doing for years and years...
 

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LegendBoy said:
I ask for a date kind of disguised and she says this

Her
i dunno
Her
i got heaps 2 do and i dunno wen its all happenin
Me
im making time for you so you can make time for me on monday or tuesday
Her
well i gotta do sumthin that i cant just snob off and i dont no wen its happening so yeh
Me
and care to tell me what that wud be
Her
just sumthin verrrrry important to me and im not missing it 4 anything
Me
ok fair enough ill cya on either monday or tuesday
..

Nothing really happened after that point.
:whistle:
Who knows? Return the favor and act the same way towards her until she gets it:kick:
 

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Le Parisien said:
This is textbook case of "I'm not interested!" Get it?:wave:

- She said "I'm busy"

- She didn't counter offer

- She can't even manage to tell you what she's busy for. :eek:

Damn, the only option you leave to the girl is saying in your face "Get lost! I'm NOT interested. I tried to be nice but you just don't get it!"
:kick:
Hate to say it but this seems as close to the truth as your gonna get.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LegendBoy

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If i had rate this girl she wud be a 6 me a 8. I thought this would be a stroll in the park. I am actually happy that i had the balls to approach a group of her friends and her and my 2 wingmen became 15 metre tails lol.

Either way thanks for the blunt responses. I am in a **** position in school u know every girl and not any hot ones left. Only real place to sarge is the gym because the mall is filled with groups of chicks and i seem 2 know everyone there.

On the other hand I am going to just leave this one. Because she is way to below my looks for her to talk how she talked 2 me hahahaha.
 

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You should read the DJ bible in the ******** section again. She said "No" in your face and you just didn't get it.
 
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