My ex girlfriend text me out of the blue yesterday asking if her mom could borrow $200 for rent. The fvck? So many problems with this but the biggest one is I keep asking myself “where did I go wrong for her to think I’d say yes?”. I know I was considered a “nice guy” but she never would say “nice” she’d always say “you’re an amazing guy!” so not really the traditional “nice guy” meaning....I guess. I broke up with her because it wasn’t going anywhere and I just didn’t see a future with her. Yeah coulda made her a plate but then I’m right back to this money thing. I never let her borrow money BUT she knows I’m well off and I did buy her stuff when we were together (not expensive ****, just like t-shirts when we’d go somewhere or I paid $40 for her oil change one time). Still though, I can’t help but think why she’d reach out to me about this. I feel like a cuck, I mean I said no but the fact that she asked makes me feel stupid.
What made it more awkward is her mom text me about it too so at least I know it was legit going to be rent money and not some ba madeup story. Her mom thought I hung the moon though and she wants her daughter to be with me.....because I’m well off but she never admitted the reason even though I know what it is.
What’s funny is she started the convo like she was catching up on me and then here it came “I have a huge favor to ask you. God I hate asking, you know how much I hate asking”. She claims other people have held **** over her head in the past when she asked for favors and I guess I did feel sort of a soft spot for that. Still though, $200 for your MOM and I haven’t seen you or spoken to you since last year?? So weird. Dating in 2019, man, no wonder men have so many dating issues these days.
What made it more awkward is her mom text me about it too so at least I know it was legit going to be rent money and not some ba madeup story. Her mom thought I hung the moon though and she wants her daughter to be with me.....because I’m well off but she never admitted the reason even though I know what it is.
What’s funny is she started the convo like she was catching up on me and then here it came “I have a huge favor to ask you. God I hate asking, you know how much I hate asking”. She claims other people have held **** over her head in the past when she asked for favors and I guess I did feel sort of a soft spot for that. Still though, $200 for your MOM and I haven’t seen you or spoken to you since last year?? So weird. Dating in 2019, man, no wonder men have so many dating issues these days.