What the hell am I supposed to do?

[TheWanderer]

Aight, so this girl I'm working on, well, she's into me and I know I can take this to the next level. Thing is, her parents are f*cking ****blocks. They won't let her stay out past f*ckin 9:30!!!!!!

Like tonight I wanted her to come with me to summerfest (those of you who live around wisconsin, you'll know it's a great place) to see this band OAR. So, it would have been a perfect time to get closer to her, specially because of the kind of music that OAR plays, and after the show I know we would have been in a great mood to do more sh*t. But since it started at 10pm her parents were like "ya right, dream on"

lol, but I still went to the concert and had a f*cking blast, damn, I'm like wasted right now, and me and my friends almost got in a fight with some hillbillys, haha, but it was fun.

So, ya, it's like if I wanna do anything with her it has to be all early n sh*t, like old people..........so, idk, is it hopeless? Because, come on, 9:30 curfew!? ah!

 

[Vincent]

9:30 sucks, but when your 16 you don't exactly have a whole lot of options.

The chick might not even be totally interested either. I dunno, don't let it bother you too much. Try to set something up during the day, maybe meet her parents. Gice that a try and see what happens.

 

[LikRetsam]

I never saw myself giving this retarded advice but it fits the situation unfortunatly...

NEXT!

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
I never saw myself giving this retarded advice but it fits the situation unfortunatly...

NEXT!

Nexting because of her parents? That's just wrong man.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Did she tell you that or did you hear her parents say what time her curfew was??

 

[LikRetsam]

At 16? This guy seems like a night owl and honestly, putting up with a girl with that sharp a curfew is hell. Now that it's summer, it could work but nonetheless! Summer and a 9:30 curfew?! It's like a chick with a boyfriend. There are enough singles out there to pick out. Working around that curfew is not worth the trouble unless she is that damn great.

 

[bubbles]

damn those parents!

 

[NRM]

If she wasn't good enough, he wouldn't be coming here hoping for solutions, would he? Besides, he's working on her, she might just be a fine girl, and you're saying NEXT her because she has to be in by 9:30?

TheWanderer, it depends what your intentions are. If it's just to date her and stuff, then you'll just have to do things during the day and get her home by 9:30. You can either respect her parents or use the badboy approach and don't respect her parents and get her to come out later with you. She'll have some excitement from staying out and sneaking out past curfew and stuff.

What I think you should do is just work around it. If you do things right, her parents might warm up to you, and if you come in and ask politely, they might trust you with their daughter out past curfew. Just respect them for now.

 

[hardwork]

Originally posted by TheWanderer
Aight, so this girl I'm working on, well, she's into me and I know I can take this to the next level. Thing is, her parents are f*cking ****blocks. They won't let her stay out past f*ckin 9:30!!!!!! [...] lol, but I still went to the concert and had a f*cking blast, damn, I'm like wasted right now, and me and my friends almost got in a fight with some hillbillys, haha, but it was fun.

Wow! What responsible parents would want to keep their child out of situations like that? How close-minded can you get?! Damn Puritans!

Originally posted by TheWanderer
So, ya, it's like if I wanna do anything with her it has to be all early n sh*t, like old people..........so, idk, is it hopeless? Because, come on, 9:30 curfew!? ah!

You're 16, and they're not your parents: she needs to get proactive and talk to them, and give them reason to bump up her curfew. There isn't much you can do except to not do anything to kill her efforts. (Being the least bit endearing with her parents will help more than it will hurt.)

 

[Capi Crimini]

Summerfest rocks....

They got some good bands this year... though last year kicked ass.


If she's up to it sneak her out. Otherwise learn to deal with it...

Though if she gets caught sneaking out or breaks the rules anytime... it might be hard to see her anytime...

She Mormon. My mormon cousins in New Berlin are like that. really strict with boys...

Boys can't go into girls rooms and vise versa. Unless there married.

Where in Wisc. are you?


-EDIT- What about the Rave? I think they start before 9:30? -EDIT-

 

[TheWanderer]

I'm in menomonee falls.......right by milwaukee. Ya, I know there are earlier things like the rave, but this is summerfest! Oh well, I didn't really care tho, cus even though I didn't get any, I prolly had more fun with all my friends than I would have had with her.

Oh, I heard this from her parents. Not to mention I heard her mom saying "yea right, dream on" to her while she was on the phone with me.

Guess the only thing I can think of is........using her during the day and finding someone else for the night? lol.....different area codes.

 

[Capi Crimini]

Okay try this. Take her out earlier and lose track of time? I hear they have a new thing for cell phones where you can play things like sirens in the background...? It was in the NY times on sunday.

Check that out... lies never come back to haunt you...*cough*

I know your not close. But out of curiousity do you know anyone from Waukesha North?