"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What the hell am I doing?

Dogbreath

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Ok so I'm talking to this girl, she went cold, then I tried to get her friend out. Then I tried inviting them both out. And I'm like, what in the hell is going through my head?? I have dates with other girls all week, but for some reason I'm thinking about this one, which is like the worst out of all of them!!! Anyway, probably the best thing to do is just to next her? Sorry for the retarded post I'm just trying to get my **** straight here before I turn into a complete idiot although I may already be there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Asmodeus

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Do not get oneitis for a girl who is going cold on you. Why are you even interested in a girl who goes cold on you and who is the "worst" of your options, when you admit to have better options? I think it is just the challenge, perhaps you want what you feel you cannot have... But believe me, she is not worth it as she has already proven to you. Test out your other options, ignore that girl who went cold on you, because she deserves no attention if she does not give any to you. Remember you attention is your currency, do not give it away for free to a woman. Especially if they do not even seem to value it...
 

CMNILS87

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This song should seriously be the forums anthem song.
 
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