What the heck?!?

[trans_am17]

Okay so I just got off work and my frind talked to our manager and they got around to talking about her daughter who I've been trying to get with , and he told her that she never called me back and wont answer when I call and she said its because I hung up on her the last time we talked which was a week ago. And now she's pissed because I hung up. Keep in mind that I was pissed at her for flaking on our date so I let her know. Also her mom said that all I had to do was "ask her out and be bg and gf" did ask her out on a date so I dont see what the nig difference is. So what the he!!, does it sound like she'll come around or should I just move on. I dont mean to sound afcish by dwelling on this so please no bashing. But I did really like this girl and am still trying to get over her.PS: should I try calling her back and leave an apolgetic message?

 

[StrangeButTrue]

She's a bitter *****. NEXT.

 

[08aisaac]

Well following a mother's advice on dating is never a good idea. She is probaly just trying to tye you down with her daughter or some crap like that. I agree just next her and don't talk to her anymore so she will eventually want you and you can really lay down the law or whatever.

 

[Jerky Boi]

Ah, that magic four letter word that seems to just throw everyone's problems away.

You can still probably reconcile what you have with this chick if you just calm down. I can understand you being a little upset about her flaking, but man you don't need to get all pissed about it. Act like it doesn't bother you, and that you have other dating options. Her mother's trying to get her a steady boyfriend. You don't need her help! You're a friggin Don Juan. If she's telling you to ask her out, be a little less predictable and keep her guessing. The only way you're going to get this chick is if you give her something she's never had before in a guy. If she flakes on a date, act like it doesn't bother you and say, "Well, maybe we can do this some other time." Don't answer the phone all the time when she calls, don't dwell on her all the time. Life's too short to be spent worrying about women all the time. Go for it but at the same time, don't put all of your efforts into one thing because you're going to be a lot more upset if you do. Good luck tho man.

 

[trans_am17]

So if things are still fixable, how do I get things going again? Remember she won't answer my calls, I stopped called 2 days ago though.

 

[trans_am17]

Also its been exactly a week since I've talked to her.

 

[Porky]

maybe you CAN reconcile things with her.

but why the hell would you want to?

 

[trans_am17]

Why not? So how can I reconsile?

 

[08aisaac]

Why do you want to reconcile? She's too much trouble.

 

[Porky]

Originally posted by 08aisaac
Why do you want to reconcile? She's too much trouble.

She's stressing you out way too much, man. relationships of any kind with any person should not be this difficult.

 

[hybidrainbow]

ok, i agree with pork, she's too much. and you're stressing too much. she's probably thinking less about it than you.
if you really want fix things, just do it. if she still proves to be a stiffy, it's not worth the time.
ask yourself, i do i or don't i want to get with her? what are the pros to cons? be a DJ

however, it seems like she's sending mixed signals. yeah, she's pissed, but she's also ignoring you. so like i said earlier, be a DJ and ask yourself the question.

 

[hybidrainbow]

don't think too much on this, though