"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what the heck?

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Re: Re: a little twist

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
...Whenever I tell a girl I'm feeling pressure, expectations and that I'm not ready for any relationship (GF) or commitments it usually comes down to me just wanting to hit that ass while hitting anything else I find attractive on the way.

So true..

Either he is one of the biggest AFC(I HATE THOSE EXPRESSIONS)/pvussy I've ever seen or he is playing you so bad it's not even funny.

If he is playing you he is rolereversing you and playing on your sympathy and emotions really bad. If you ask me he felt like he was limiting HIS choices not YOURS. And regarding "not focus on him but give others a chance" I'd translate that too get off my back except if it's for sex once in a while or when I'm bored.

I could've said exactly the same since I found myself agreeing with both lines of thought. Regardless of the route taken, 32swf, he's taking you for a ride.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I take it you are having sex with him? Stop having sex and see what happens -- you'll get your answer - quickly!!

At 32, I take it that your time to get married is closing in on you fast... spend your time wisely and move on looking for others while he is making his decision.
 
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