"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the heck is going on with her?

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A woman should only get once chance per lifetime to ever dump you.

This is what it means to have self-respect. You don't waste time on women who are not attracted to you. So why are you still talking to this b!tch? Once a woman dumps you she is toast. You have to move on. I don't care if she claims she wants to get back together or she "made a mistake". Once she dumps you she is down to sex toy/booty call status for life if anything. B!tches get ONE chance with you. That's it. Respect yourself.

Once a woman knows she can disrespect you and you will respond with "Thank you.. may I have another?" she knows you're a faggot. She will take advantage of this down the road. I would do the same thing. If I can treat a b!tch like dirt and she responds by treating me even better than before.. then I learn its best to treat her like dirt.

Dignity > Women

Giving a woman another chance to reject you or dump you is a sign of desperation, low self-esteem and low value. Stop being emo faggots and learn to walk away from manipulative c*nts.
What if she dumps you because youve made her cry tons of times and basically been an ******* for her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well she just put some old inside jokes kind of gifts inside of the bag. A movie I like. Favorite candy bar. A joke. Just a few of those things.
Here's my take on it... She dumped you for a new guy and it's not working (or didn't) work out. She now wants you back.

Women do things based on how they feel in the moment and that includes dumping their BFs. They'll do it when they're getting emotionally 'distracted' by another man. Many times they'll end up regretting what they did and make attempts to get back together.

DON'T TAKE HER BACK. Any breakup should count as a major red flag against her. You've been doing well dealing with the situation. You should now cut all communication with her and find a new broad to fvck.
 

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Thanks guys for the advice.

I already said thank you beforehand so I shouldn't say anything else to her at all ? Not even a thanks again? Even though I'm still clearly interested it's best not to use the bag as means to open the door and try to be friends?
 

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Thanks guys for the advice.

I already said thank you beforehand so I shouldn't say anything else to her at all ? Not even a thanks again? Even though I'm still clearly interested it's best not to use the bag as means to open the door and try to be friends?
Why would you want to be friends with this girl? Will that get you laid? No.
Will she set you up with her friends? No.
Will she be your new wingman and help you pick up chicks? No.

She will most likely ruin any chance you try to get involved with a new chick because she knows you are still emotionally attatched to her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why would you want to be friends with this girl? Will that get you laid? No.
Will she set you up with her friends? No.
Will she be your new wingman and help you pick up chicks? No.

She will most likely ruin any chance you try to get involved with a new chick because she knows you are still emotionally attatched to her.
Well I was told now that I know she's open to being friendly it should be okay to say something if I really wanted to.
 

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Deviating from the topic a bit here but as a woman I'm curious.

Him saying

"ok cool thanks"
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"my roommate just told me"
"I'm in *insert her city"

Is him a dropping a hint to see her or at least him casting a net now?
 

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Well I was told now that I know she's open to being friendly it should be okay to say something if I really wanted to.
I dissagree with being her friend. It will be a complete waste of time and energy. I would recomend go spinning plates, meet new girls and forget about this one. But you can do what you want to and be her friend but i have to ask, do you want to be alpha? Or do you want to be beta?
 

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Women are nearly useless as friends to other women, totally useless as friends to men. I used to prefer female friendships but I had to learn the hard way how backstabbing they are to their "friends" - cut her loose. Perma-ban her.
 

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Forgot to add before she dropped off the gift she snapped driving a BMW. In the snap she said " “When he finally lets you drive his M4” but you never see the guy just the steering wheel...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Forgot to add before she dropped off the gift she snapped driving a BMW. In the snap she said " “When he finally lets you drive his M4” but you never see the guy just the steering wheel...
So there it is! Women are so typical about cars. I drive a Jaguar - on my third one in 12 years, and I almost always avoid that fact for as long as humanly possible. Even "adult" women can fall into that "date him bc he has a cool car" high school mindset. Gold digger - be glad she's gone.
 

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So there it is! Women are so typical about cars. I drive a Jaguar - on my third one in 12 years, and I almost always avoid that fact for as long as humanly possible. Even "adult" women can fall into that "date him bc he has a cool car" high school mindset. Gold digger - be glad she's gone.
So you don't think that could have been her dad's, uncle's, friends, etc car?
 
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