"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What the Fukk is wrong with me???

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Originally posted by AmIAFC
Like I said earlier, people use the dreaded "AFC" policy as a security blanket to cover-up for their own lack of confidence.

Yeah, I think you are totally right. I have in the past sabotaged myself into not doing 'something'. anything because in my head, it was 'afc'.

Thanks alot for your replies, you have been very supportive.


The problem is that this is perpetuous, I'm not angry over ONE night, it is like EVERY weekends it is the same story, every time I go clubbing, it is just me dancing, ALONE, and not having the balls to do anything. I'm just tired of that.


and for everyone's information, I HAVE read the bible, reading doesn't help me DO.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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