"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What the Fukk is wrong with me???

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Originally posted by AmIAFC
Like I said earlier, people use the dreaded "AFC" policy as a security blanket to cover-up for their own lack of confidence.

Yeah, I think you are totally right. I have in the past sabotaged myself into not doing 'something'. anything because in my head, it was 'afc'.

Thanks alot for your replies, you have been very supportive.


The problem is that this is perpetuous, I'm not angry over ONE night, it is like EVERY weekends it is the same story, every time I go clubbing, it is just me dancing, ALONE, and not having the balls to do anything. I'm just tired of that.


and for everyone's information, I HAVE read the bible, reading doesn't help me DO.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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