"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What The F*ck @ PUA Hate?

Dgwizdal

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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to noobolgy again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This site is much better than any other "pick up women site" i have visited

I have read alot of advice which i have used professionally and personally to improve my life.
I refer to this site as life improvement rather than having that mentality that you must pick up women all the time
(yes i do have plates but they are not my life as i'm always busy)

This site has helped alot

Thanks Sosuave
 

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The point of this site is not to be a PUA, it's a resource for you to learn how to be a grown man. It's completely your responsibility to make use of the information here, and to share your EXPERIENCE of what works in real-life. Dissing other sites or arguing about stuff you don't have first-hand experience about is pointless and leads to degrading the quality of this site.

It's extremely simple (not easy to practice) to be a member here. Shut up and learn all you can, apply to your life experience, come back to describe your experience, evaluate the feedback, try again and as you go it will become clear what advice to avoid and what to follow. Try helping the same way you got help, and if you really know what you're talking about there's nothing to argue about. We are ultimately responsible for being a good human being.

Any knowledge is worthless if it cannot be put to positive use, complaining is a sign that you've lost focus. And to make myself clear, this is meant as constructive criticism. To be honest it's embarrassing to watch men well above my age acting this way, but I do hope you get the point.
 

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3agle 3yes said:
Why is this a problem to you? If some women want to have male harems, let them have their harems...

I'm not in "competition" with anybody, nor is there some kind of "war" with "betas" and "alphas"...

As for PUA hate and the quality of this forum...I think it boils down to one thing....

...And I don't know what starts this...is it too much porn? Is it peer pressure?

But FAR too many men place too much value on getting laid at ALL COSTS.

Tell me, what does getting laid achieve? Do they think it will make them become men?

Don't get me wrong I LOVE women and I LOVE sex...but I can go days and weeks without it. I can meet an attractive women, get her number and NOT bang her the same day....

I rely on NO ONE. I need NO ONE. There are women whom I am friends with that could be considered 9s or 10s that I have not considered banging....I have even turned many girls down.

When I was younger I had oneitis, I even behaved "beta" and I definitely wanted to bang lots of attractive women...but my goal quickly changed from learning how to bang attractive women to learning that I do not NEED them.

I LOVE women but they're not an essential part of my life...because...and I'm sorry to say it...I just don't take them THAT seriously...
Because think about it. If a woman has ten guys that she doesn't have to fvck, they will buy her sh!t, give her rides for free to places, basically what ever she wants and also be her emotional tampon, it makes me have to work that much harder to get sex.

The saddest part of all this, is these nice guys are only doing it hoping it will increase their chances of sex and/or a committed relationship. Fvcking pathetic.

So its bad for both "pua/alpha" and for themselves. It gives the women so many options that they don't deserve at all. In fact if they didn't have tits and a vagina, some one would have probably buried them in the desert already as a result of how they treat people.

Also, I never said nor do I believe there is a war between any one you said that. I guess you believe there is a war.
 
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