She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I have no idea how this became so widespread (Apple marketing maybe), but its not true. 3 years before the first Apple computer . .Brownrice said:They created the first home PC.
Was the Xerox Alto a home PC? No. It was never sold to any consumer. So the Apple I was the first home PC (consumer PC). I'm pretty sure Xerox copied someone else too. Everyone copies something.Forty0ztoFreedom said:I have no idea how this became so widespread (Apple marketing maybe), but its not true. 3 years before the first Apple computer . .
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xerox_Alto
In fact, Apple copied much of its design from the Alto.
No way does the iPad or anything like it EVER replace the laptop. Funny, they say the smart-phone will replace the laptop too. And I remember hearing that "touch-screen" will replace the mouse.
The people who say all of those things are blinded by hype. My arm gets tired just thinking about having to use a touch-screen for everyday PC use. And good luck loading up a quick game of Left 4 Dead 2 or doing video-editing or even doing a spreadsheet on your iPad.
I agree that a tablet/laptop hybrid may be the future but you can bet your @$$ that it will still called be a LAPTOP COMPUTER.
Definitely prefer this as well.Alle_Gory said:It's a preview of the tech that's coming. Ideally laptops and tablets would merge and become something like this:
http://www.asus.com/Eee/Eee_Pad/Eee_Pad_Transformer_TF101/
Laptop when you want it, tablet when you don't.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I personally hate touchscreens devices. Mainly because I tested software on touchscreen driven devices for 2 years, and realized working with them wasn't efficient, they break easily, and are expensive.Brownrice said:Was the Xerox Alto a home PC? No. It was never sold to any consumer. So the Apple I was the first home PC (consumer PC). I'm pretty sure Xerox copied someone else too. Everyone copies something.
Sounds like you just hate touch screen devices. It's ok, some people hate typing on laptop keyboards just as much as you hate typing on touch screens.
Like I said, the Ipad like devices will get better with time and become much smoother systems.
Huh? iPad2 is massive all over the world. Kiev is loaded with them. Go to Double Coffee tomorrow. Every annoying rich kid has one. Some rich teenager pulls it out of her $2,500 Hermes bag and acts as if she knows what the hell it is. I seriously doubt if she knows what an app. even is. However, mags like Tatler Russia and Otkrito have taught her that she needs one.TyTe`EyEz said:See, you're still an American at heart. Were you too effeminate for American women? Do they appreciate the "finer things" where you're at now? That's nice. Good for you, bud.
I don't get it.BigJimbo said:Effeminate is sticking around America and marrying a 30 year old woman who has been around the block a few hundred times. Effeminate is watching the NFL. Effeminate is changing diapers. Effeminate is jerking off to your college years when you could bone some chubby 19 year old.
I have seen and used someone elses one before and i thought it was pretty good. It may not replace the laptop but i do think it will take some laptop sales away. I could possibly consider getting one even though i don't really like apple stuff.Brownrice said:The iPad is the start of the future for mobile computing. This type of device will eventually replace the laptop soon. It's a great business toy. Great to pull up stocks on, read newspapers, browse the web, watch videos etc.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.