“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What The F Can I Do?

SteveTheDon

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Ill be 30 next month, I never worked out my whole life... now that I found this site last month after being a heartbroken AFC I want to take advantage of what "youth" I have left and start pulling in some chicks to hopefulyy find the one that I want to marry. My question is can I change this at 30? Im about 5'10 and 210 pds... I dont know my target weight and not the slightest idea what to do, no extra money for a gym, do have a treadmil here, can anyone point me in the right direction of diet/excersise to lose the extra pds and get ripped? I need to do something for me cause my life feels like **** right now..
thanks in advance...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Pimp-sicle

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Hey Steve,

You absolutely can make incredible changes ESPECIALLY since you have never lifted before.

If you don't have access to the gym and are serious about getting in shape, I suggest doing the following:

1) Get a stability ball and a set of light dumbbells.

What most people do when they are new to lifting is run to the gym and hire some bs trainer who is clueless or follow a routine out of a magazine. What they should be doing is focusing on themselves. When you first start you should ideally focus on building up your stabilizer muscles. Most newbie injuries occur form improper lifting technique and weak stabilizers on a heavy load. If you are relatively athletic you should advance through this stage relatively quickly. Google basic exercises like dumbbell presses, tricep extensions, rear delt exercises, etc etc. You can do almost every body part in some way or form on a stability ball. Reason for the ball is to help develop your stabilizer muscles since its an uneven surface that must be controlled while also lifting with good form. If you want specific exercises PM me.


2) Start reading around the 'net on how to build an effective diet for your health goals. Bodyrecomposition.com is a pretty good site, Lyle McDonald has good insight and a good beginner program, although I don't agree with any pure newbie like yourself jumping straight into a regular lifting program. Spend time building those stabilizers on a ball, you will thank me later when you don't have shoulder or knee injuries. Also google info on proper posture, which is usually out of whack for newbies.

3) Get a whey protein supplement: protein builds muscle, enuff said, again if you want help with specifics PM me.


Less is more, not only when starting but for all but the advanced client. What are your goals? Have you ever got your bodyfat tested (recently?) Do you do any type of exercise at all currently??






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Pimp-sicle said:
Hey Steve,

You absolutely can make incredible changes ESPECIALLY since you have never lifted before.

If you don't have access to the gym and are serious about getting in shape, I suggest doing the following:

1) Get a stability ball and a set of light dumbbells.

What most people do when they are new to lifting is run to the gym and hire some bs trainer who is clueless or follow a routine out of a magazine. What they should be doing is focusing on themselves. When you first start you should ideally focus on building up your stabilizer muscles. Most newbie injuries occur form improper lifting technique and weak stabilizers on a heavy load. If you are relatively athletic you should advance through this stage relatively quickly. Google basic exercises like dumbbell presses, tricep extensions, rear delt exercises, etc etc. You can do almost every body part in some way or form on a stability ball. Reason for the ball is to help develop your stabilizer muscles since its an uneven surface that must be controlled while also lifting with good form. If you want specific exercises PM me.


2) Start reading around the 'net on how to build an effective diet for your health goals. Bodyrecomposition.com is a pretty good site, Lyle McDonald has good insight and a good beginner program, although I don't agree with any pure newbie like yourself jumping straight into a regular lifting program. Spend time building those stabilizers on a ball, you will thank me later when you don't have shoulder or knee injuries. Also google info on proper posture, which is usually out of whack for newbies.

3) Get a whey protein supplement: protein builds muscle, enuff said, again if you want help with specifics PM me.


Less is more, not only when starting but for all but the advanced client. What are your goals? Have you ever got your bodyfat tested (recently?) Do you do any type of exercise at all currently??






PIMP
This is good advice. Remember the main components of fitness are: 1. Weight Lifting 2. Aerobic Exercise 3. Flexibility 4. Proper Nutrition 5. Rest and Recovery

You have to have all these components in place.

As a begginer I would suggest for you not to rush headlong into training but have an idea what you will be doing and what you want to get out of it. A good starting point, targeted for begginers is the book

"Build Muscle, Lose Fat, Look Great" If you read this, you will have all the knowledge you need to workout on your own. Good luck.

http://www.amazon.com/Build-Muscle-Lose-Look-Great/dp/9963916309/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1302463602&sr=8-1
 

SteveTheDon

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Thanks to both of you, Ill post my progress here as it goes, gonna order the book on my kindle before I leave for a trip on friday.. Ill PM u then too PIMP..getting mentally ready to start next week
 
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