"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the damn?

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I started training for a position for operator dispatcher this week(mon-fri,9am-3pm). I did the usual small talk with the employees. It was this one chick I was small talking starting around monday or tuesday. The only time I saw the chick is when we were taking our lunches in the break room. Fyi, she wasn't in my training group;she worked somewhere else in the building.
Me and my training group eat our lunches in the break room. The chick always looked in my direction when I was talking to the guys. One day, think it was tuesday or wednesday, the guys left the break room and it was just me and her. Btw, we both sat in tables facing eachother. Anyway, when the guys left I was still eating my food; then the chick started talking to me.
She asked me my name, which department I work in, etc. We were chopping it up a bit the rest of the week. She continued doing the peeping at me thing as well. Fast forward today, I thought she had some interest in me. She also works on mondays-fridays from 8am-5pm; and I start my regular shift next week,mondays-fridays from 7pm-11pm.
The only time we would cross paths is this week; so, I in street fighter alpha 3 voice "went for broke." So, before I got off of lunch today when no one else was in the breakroom but me and her, I suggested we exchange numbers. The convo went something like this:

sat directly across fron her

Me: so you regularly work from this day to that day. And my regular shift is this and that. Yadda.... Since this is the last time that we would cross paths and this upcoming semester is going to be busy. Yadda. Let's exchange numbers and keep in touch.

Her: I can't, I'm married

looked and saw that she wasn't wearing a ring

Me:eek:k, so why aren't you wearing your ring?

Her: saying something that she doesn't wear it or something

Me: asked her about when she got married. Yadda

Her:got married at 18 and regrets it. Yadda

I forgot to bring up earlier she's 22.

Her:I can't give out my number but you can give me your number

Me:gave me her number. Yadda. Departed and went back to work.

She must be an attention *****

I would like to hear yall insight and interpret this. I have a feeling already but all opinions are welcome
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AS SOON AS A CHIC SAYS THEY ARE MARRIED (not that its even relevant now a days) but you come back with........HAPPILY.

YOU: what the ball n chain got you trapped so you cant even get a call from a friend, dont have your own cell phone. I aint asking you to get a divorce and fly to vegas with me sister, I was just saying lets do lunch sometime.

It might have worked in your favor if you eased into it........email first.

Odds are she wont call..........possible but slim. EmaIL is less threatening
 

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Never thought about email. Never done it before. I'm gonna give it a try for future times.
 
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