"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What stylish shoes to wear and, at the same time, look fantastic for dating?

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Women always look at shoes. I don’t know why but I do know they form a very strong impression of men based on this one thing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To us men, this doesn’t make any sense, but that is how things work in women’s world.
 

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Google Zappos.com (They're prety well known for their massive shoe selections) ..You can either order online or find the best pair(s) and then Google or call a store near you to see if they carry the style and brand(s) you saw and printed out to show them when you arrive.
 

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For Boots try getting Some doc martens, palladiums ,sorel ,and converse boots.

I even have a pair of black short hunter wellington boots for the rain.

As for sneakers i have some really stylish pumas. Cop some 574 new Balance, toms ,balenciaga (these cost bread) and margialas(these cost bread also).

I got maaad compliments and literally every shoe i`ve worn outside.The majority being girls. Dudes come up And ask me where i got my shoes all the Time. Also its not just about your shoes, you gotta put them together nicely with a good outfit.

Living n NYC helps to being that this is like the mecca of fashion in the U.S.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been rocking these boots by Floyd all winter so far, and have nothing but constant compliments. Women love them, men want them. For some reason they only have black on the site now, but I purchased them in a brown.
http://www.littleburgundyshoes.com/ca-eng/men/boots/product/91666456-millouk/15

Try to stay away from sneakers as much as possible, there is nearly ALWAYS a better alternative to wearing sneakers. Sneakers aren't going to make an impression on any women unless you're still in high school.

A nice dress shoe or loafer can always be worn with jeans. Try to get something other than black - a nice brown or oxblood looks amazing with dark denim. If it's the weekend and you feel like being a little more casual a nice boat shoe should do the trick.


You might find this article helpful. Good luck.
http://ca.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip_200/241c_fashion_advice.html
 

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I'm personally not into boat shoes, but those Floyds look pretty good. Nothing special though.

Take a look at these REHAB shoes I was lookin at in the store recently. I didn't see a pair I liked. But they're dutch so for anyone living in the US or so, these are probably gonna be real flashy if u wear em in the states.
 

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Most men, and almost all women, can't tell the difference between a full Windsor and a half Windsor -- and that's right there at eye level. So you're really not going to run into women who know anything about shoes. All they can tell are superficial things, like you're wearing shiny leather shoes instead of sneakers, or your shoes are dirty. The emo-goth lezbian urban bus rider look might work on a certain type of slvt. Probably because they look like the sick and twisted versions of men's shoes that are being sold as women's shoes nowadays.

Generally, if you wear classically appropriate clothing, down to your shoes, you'll make a better impression on strangers than if you try to make some kind of fashion statement.
 

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I hear from a stylist... The elegant individual is beginning to pay even closer attention to his shoes. Of all the accessories and items in a gentleman's wardrobe, nothing is more important than shoes for expressing one's character. Women will give you sexual looks all the time.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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and you want to date a woman who cares this much about YOUR shoes?

i don't mind if a woman cares about HER own shoes
 

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When's the last time you heard a group of single women discussing men's footwear? Never. If they ever do talk about men's shoes, it's only because they're passing through that section of the department store. As soon as they reach the purses, whatever they were talking about before -- flies right out of their little heads.

Only married women know anything about men's shoes. Single women never go shopping for anyone but themselves (and their kids). Men's clothing is a total mystery to them. Haven't you ever had a strange woman come up to you in a bar, just to feel your jacket? Women are accustomed to cheap polyester and cotton in their jackets -- wool throws them for a loop.

Men need far fewer pieces of apparel. We can concentrate on practical matters of fit, function, and quality. Women, on the other hand, buy things to wear once and then return. Their closets are stuffed with mismatched pieces that no longer fit. Women can't even find underwear that fits -- there are infomercials for bras and high-waisted stockings (body shapers).

Have you ever seen how many pairs of shoes a woman has strewn around her home? Dozens! They'll have ten pairs of the same black high-heeled style, and every one of them is broken or didn't even fit when she bought it. Women can't even buy shoes for themselves. What makes you think they have a clue about shoes for men?
 
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Men need far fewer pieces of apparel. We can concentrate on practical matters of fit, function, and quality.
Down Low, what do you consider to be the essentials of every man's wardrobe?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Down Low, what do you consider to be the essentials of every man's wardrobe?
(modify this list according to your local climate)

shirts

-- white long-sleeve (include at least one dress shirt)
-- a few striped or colored long-sleeve
-- some polo shirts
-- hawaiian shirts for hot days/vacation


pants

-- khakis
-- light summer slacks
-- heavy/dark winter slacks in navy, grey, black
-- optional brown if the color looks good on you
-- optional corduroy pants
-- a pair of blue jeans
-- cargo shorts


shoes

-- black oxford
-- brown oxford (if you wear browns)
-- loafers
-- boat shoes
-- sneakers
-- sandals
-- ankle or higher boots according to snow depth


jackets

-- navy blazer
-- grey solid or tweed
-- light blue cotton
-- khaki or tan cotton or linen
-- zipper jacket
-- heavy wool jacket such as a peacoat
-- optional brown if the color looks good on you
-- optional corduroy blazers


underwear

-- boxer shorts
-- white underwear T-shirts or A-shirts
-- socks to match pants
-- white socks
-- thermal underwear
-- pajamas
-- bathrobe


outerwear

-- overcoat/raincoat
-- knit cap and scarf
-- leather gloves
-- umbrella
-- navy and black V-neck sweaters (to wear with ties)
-- optional other crewneck/turtleneck sweaters, sweater vests
-- optional vests


accessories

-- belts to match shoes
-- some solid and some striped or patterned ties
-- white handkerchiefs
-- plain analog watch
-- gym clothes
-- crappy old clothes for working around the house
-- optional swim trunks


suits

-- optional black for high mass and funerals
-- optional grey for office/court
-- optional navy if you wear suits a lot
 

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vicsuz said:
Women always look at shoes. I don’t know car parts why but I do know they form a very strong impression of men based on this one thing.
Women also look at the brand of shoes you are wearing.
 
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Interesting... from the journal of anchor division

HANDMADE BROGUES - DOUBLE MONK STRAP
The guys over at Handmade Brogues send me some custom made Double Monk Straps to review. Upon receiving these, i noticed a few things that had caught my eye on a visual standpoint. These shoes were exceptional quality. The leather material used on the inside and outside of the shoe, the hardware and the welt and the leather heel. For the price standpoint, 179.00USD via paypal is perfect. You can fully customize and tailor exactly how you want your shoe, from the type of leather (or better yet, material, YES they have snakeskin). Extremely fast shipping coming from overseas and great customer service via email. You can't pass these footwear up. Purchase them here.

http://anchordivision.com/journal/handmade-brogues-double-monk-strap
 

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Damn, in the UK... from 18 upwards, you cant go wrong with a pair of suede brogues at the minute for dressy shoes. There in and look sweet! Clarks desert shoes are in as well, a pair of them with a nice pair of slim fit jeans are good to. If your looking for sneakers... New Balance are in.. Nike Huaraches are in.. Jordans are in, Superga are decent as well. Pumas are good sneakers to!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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