"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What sources of information do you use.

Jukeboxhero

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First, I would like to say this appears to be a great forum for getting information about how to improve yourself, your lifestyle and "game" as it relates to women.

That being said though, I highly doubt this material just popped into people's heads unless everyone here is a bonafide natural who never looked to another source for information.

So I'm curious. What books, articles, Ebooks or other sources do you personally read?
Also which do you find to be the most beneficial for people who are beginners?
I'm debating which book/source to invest my money in, Right now I'm heavily leaning towards David Deangelo but there are SOOO many other choices out there so I'm hoping people can advice me on what seems to have the best results.

Another one I was considering was www.datepro.com Of course I could also look into Doc Love, The Mystery Method and countless others!

Last but not least I would like to know more about Kino and other strange abbreviations and terms like AFC?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You dont really need to spend a dime on anything to improve yourself. I (& others here) can tell you that everything you need to know is in the DJ Bible. Its a collection of peoples' field-tested knowledge, AND it has articles from the "experts" that write books on this stuff... The bible has many sources, so you wont just be getting advice from one dude (like when you buy a book).
 

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You can learn much about kino in the bible. An "AFC" is an average frustrated chump.

It doesn't take years to learn this stuff. It just takes practice and dedication.
 

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So you mean to tell me nobody has read anything or can reccomend anything other than the free random info posted here?

Having free info is great. I'm going to look through the dictionary again. However, the one problem is there are lots of different opinions and techniques and I know a lot of them have come from other sources.
For instance "********" and "interest Level" which I see in a lot of posts are phrases that Doc Love uses.

Anyways, I will certainly get all the free information before I actually buy anything and it might allow me to forego making a purchase altogether. However, if I were to want to invest my money into something and commit the nessecary time to make it work---what would be the best deal in your experience?

Also, what is an LJBF?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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