KarmaSutra
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Probably tomorrow. We're meeting at Barnes n Noble here in town to talk and let him tell me what he's learned.penkitten said:how long until he registers ?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Probably tomorrow. We're meeting at Barnes n Noble here in town to talk and let him tell me what he's learned.penkitten said:how long until he registers ?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
you know, before we had a break for the holidays, we were getting some really good chats in the chat room on sunday nights with victory, interceptor, str8up, the humanist, redpill, lovely lady and oakraiderz and lots more.KarmaSutra said:Probably tomorrow. We're meeting at Barnes n Noble here in town to talk and let him tell me what he's learned.
Yes sir. In true Crowley-esque fashion. I had mentioned to him that Crowley is one of my heroes and when he'd made the decision to acclamate himself fully to Magick (his term) and opening his consciousness he shook himself up by shaving his head. This was to remind him of his commitment and focus his attention to his goal Similar to thisVictory Unlimited said:Yo General Karma,
So he's shaved his head, huh? I'm sure YOU know that's only the beginning. You might REALLY not recognize him a month or so from now...lol.
Whenever you feel that Brother Able is at a point where he is ready to start delving a little deeper into the area of attracting and interacting with women he's interested in, I suggest that you have him take a look at this thread:
Objective: AMMUNITION for ATTRACTION!
I re-formatted it from one of my books and posted it on here to give the guys a good, core foundation for them to build upon whenever they are trying to craft an image-----whenever they are trying to decide HOW they want to be perceived by the women they meet.
And from THAT chosen foundation, they can go on to then tweak their physical assets, and to project their personas in a way that's most true to who THEY are on the inside.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Geez, youngblood, the dichotomy is overwhelming. Being in high school does NOT make you any less a MENtor to other fellas than an aging man wiling away with his stories from his rocking chair with pipe in hand. You say it yourself that you put the info out there for them, although it may be shrouded in a bit of mystery. Sometimes brother, people need that cloak of secrecy to find truth. Even if you change the course of one boy-man's life it's still noble.SinJester said:Wow this is truly inspiring karma. What a story.
I've helped guys out by giving them advice but I have never directed anyone to this wesbite. I have copied and pasted inspiring articles for good friends when they need it but as I am in HS letting people know I go to a seduction forum would be social suicide. You think people would thank me and not tell anyone? I don't think so.
Besides where I live is small and teaching someone else would result in another player I have to deal with
Really I'm just not ready to 'mentor' someone in person. I still have my own issues I have to deal with and everyone I know is still young and has plenty of time to find their way. But I often do help out (well I try) guys with girl problems.
But them being a "douche" doesn't sway you from extending your branch from the Tree of Knowledge and THAT, my friend, is character and courage. See the above post to SinJester, as I think it pertains to you as well.BoredDude said:I have done many things to try and help them, I have even given them a simple step by step process to follow and they still don't succesfully approach women. It has gotten to the point where I'll approach a girl and instead of trying to get the girl for myself I talk about my friends and how great they are. Those nights usually end up with them calling me a douche for stealing their girl but whatever.