"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What Songs gets girls in the MOOD?

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What songs have you used in the past to get a girl 'in the mood'? One song I have used and it NEVER fails is Madonna's 'Justify My Love'. Something about that song makes a girl want to get physical. Music helps set the mood, and this song DOES set the mood.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well depends, som girls get into the mood with Maryln Masion, others with classical, but I like to use Jazz, smooth R & B, or certain smooth rap like A Tribe Called Quest. Also when you speak of "getting into the mood" use music that you would like to listen to or that will relax you too, both of you need to relaxed in order for everything to uh........ go down(lol) smooth:cool:
 

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The late and great Barry White. And a lot of contemporary jazz.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lisa Fischer- How can I ease the pain

The best.

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"B1tches Ain't Sh1t"_DR.DRE .THE CHRONIC- LP.
" Ain't No Fun"--Snoop Dogg_-Doggystyle__lp.
" XXXplosive(with the interlude)--DR.DRE__THE CHRONIC2001
"2 b1tches At The Same Time".---Too $hort__You Nasty (??)
"Ice Cream" Raekwon ...OnlyBuiltForCubanLynx
"Supermodel" Cappadonna...The Ying/Yang
"Chickenheads"__-LIL CEASE---THE Wonderful World of Ceaser Leo.
"BRight"-----TRINA-Diamond Princess
"Story to Tell" B.I.G...YOU KNOW WHAT ALBUM THIS IS!!
"Fyck U Tnight" ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
"DR.Knockboot" NAs---NAStrudamus Or I am...(???)
"WHATS Your Phone#" ...2pac-Ally eyez on me Book 1(Sosuave.com anthem)
"Rather be your N1gga"^^^^^^^^^^
"Every where i Go"^^^^^^^^^^^
"Firm Allstars " The Firm (The FIrm Flop)
"Hed sh1t" N.O.R.E.....N.O.R.E.
"Big Pimpin" Jay-z. VOL.3.
" Get Out" Shyne _Shyne.
" Don't Trust 'Em" Shyne (unreleased)(THA REALNEZZ ANTHEM)
" Why Do Good girls like Bad Guys"DMX
"What THese B1tches From A Nigga " ^^^^^^^^
" P.I.M.P."(Lp version) Curtis Jackon____Stay Broke Or Live Procrastinating.
"PUT IN HER MOOOUUUTTHHH!!!" AKINELYE..THE DUDE DOESN"T EVEN RELEASE ALBUMS!!
"Babby daady" T-Bird An 'em.
"Project B1tch" Big Tymers




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1.SOOO Anxious...Ginuwine
2.Ryde Ny pony...Ginuwine.
3.Computer Love.(????)
4.Loose Rap...AAliyah
5.Rock Da boat...Aaliyah
6.I DON'T GET DOWN ON THE FIRST NIGHT...What's Her Name
7.Private Show...Pink(I Will Marry This B1tch One DAY!)
8.THAT SONG BY R.KElly And JEWELL.
9.Ignition....R.Kelly.
!0.FullMoon... By BRandy(JUST CUZ I'M BIG AND FINE DON'T MEAN I DON'T HAVE FEELINGS!)
11.KEEP IT ON THE DOWWW LOOWWW!..R.Kelly.
12.You Remind Of MY Jeep,...R.Kelly.
13.Rubbing On your Booty ....R.Kelly.
14.Billy Jean ...Jailbait Jackson..

Burn it Just Like That ,SOn.
 

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I cannot believe that the one and only song fopr getting a girl in the mood hasn't even received a mention:

Marvin Gaye - Let's Get It On


And apart from that, Barry White is king.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stairway to Heaven used to be the major make out song.
 

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Led Zeppelin "Kashmir"

Ultimate right there.
 

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Originally posted by B9
I cannot believe that the one and only song fopr getting a girl in the mood hasn't even received a mention:

Marvin Gaye - Let's Get It On


And apart from that, Barry White is king.
Didn't want to mention anything too obvious... Barry White is good, but there are so many others, how about the Temptations, or Al Green (Lets Stay Together is my shyt!)

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Girls don't care what's playing on your cd player, man. Any background noise will do. What I find is that the girl will associate whatever song is playing at the time with YOU in the future. And it will create memories imbedded in her mind. So, whenever she hears that song 1 to 3 years from now on the radio, she'll either smile and remember you, or she'll quickly change the station, because the relationship ended on a sour note (bad memories).



If I had to choose a cd to listen to forever, this would be the one: The Verve - Urban Hymns
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Lady, Lady, Lady" by Joe Esposito from the Flashdance soundtrack.. The lyrics are all about gettin' it on :D
 

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'Je t'aime' by Serge Gainsbourg.
 

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Songs don't get girls in the mood. I do. :cool:
Your right. A DJ with skillz doesnt need music to get a girl 'in the mood', but the right music playing in the background makes it easier on the DJ to seal the deal.

I think any music with erotic noises (like moaning in the background) has a good chance at making a girl horny
 

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Several Barry White, Franki Valli - can't take my eyes off of you etc. But I've never actually needed too. Girls usually are just way horny so it's not an issue.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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