SeymourCake
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What song are you currently listening to?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dust 2 Dust
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InnerHappiness
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQJACVmankY
Women are just there for your enjoyment.
Get the mentality in you. (I'm not black byt he way,)
Women are just there for your enjoyment.
Get the mentality in you. (I'm not black byt he way,)
Desdinova
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Vice
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RqTsUtQLRFk
Their new album isn't as good as their first two, but in my opinion, this song is pretty good in both a musical sense and philosophical sense.
I also kind of dig the 60's-70's graphical style of the music video.
Their new album isn't as good as their first two, but in my opinion, this song is pretty good in both a musical sense and philosophical sense.
I also kind of dig the 60's-70's graphical style of the music video.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Vice
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The girls I go out with would crack up if I played this at any timeMidnightCity said:
It's a little too intense/serious/cheesy
I used to play "Empty Streets" by Late Night Alumni after dates and I eventually stopped because my taste in girls changed to those who hate "romantic music".
It's not for everybody but I've been listening to a lot of Hank III lately.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEaF6Qt4Fb8
If you like country OR punk it's not for you. If you like country AND punk it is!
Also this. It's old and I think it heard it a decade ago but rediscovered it for good lately.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEaF6Qt4Fb8
The voice and instrumentation is rougher than the original and makes it better even though I loved the original.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEaF6Qt4Fb8
If you like country OR punk it's not for you. If you like country AND punk it is!
Also this. It's old and I think it heard it a decade ago but rediscovered it for good lately.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEaF6Qt4Fb8
The voice and instrumentation is rougher than the original and makes it better even though I loved the original.
Not your typical EDM http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xUsUkzmnL4
Vantagepoint34
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Justin Bieber- As long as you love me
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Taylor Swift- Love story
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We were watching this at prayer meeting and I can't get it out of my head.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZ5PWflZ7y0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZ5PWflZ7y0
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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2 day to this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Btv5qhgo8nc
speed dawg
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