"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What sites do ppl go to online to meet women?

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PalmerTheCharmer

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OK I'm always hearing all this stuff about people 'meeting' women online and all the rest of it.. and our good friend David D is always stressing that meeting women online is an excellent opportunity to practice C&F etc...

So, what are these sites? What are the best ones that you guys go on? And are they ones where you have to put up a profile of yourself first?

Because I'd rather not do that.. I'm not looking to meet up with the ppl in real life (plus I'm in the UK anyways).. I just want the opportunity to practice C&F with some faceless females who I won't have to see again if I screw up.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Faceparty is pretty good. You will find that no one will talk to you unless you have a pic of yourself at least. Also Yahoo Messager has (or used to have) loads of chat rooms.

The forum acedemics will sl*g you off for using the internet to chat up women, but if you want to boost your confidence or are just starting out then its an excellent place to start.

I am from the UK and I have met a few women off these sites. 2 :s (below 5) 1 invited me over to stay the night the following day (about a 6) and one very very cute hair dresser (8-9) how pic didnt do her justice but had a few ... um 'issues' ....

People are on there for a reason 1) to feck about and play games 2) to treat other people like crap to make themselves feel better 3) cos there so damb ugly 4) to practice and to boost confidence

Just dont take it so serious and use it to enhance real world field testing and its a usefull tool!

Oct

Ps stay away from the ones with sexy pics ... they are after attention ... end of ...
 
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OK thanks a lot man I'll check that out now. Not sure about keeping away from the gals with sexy pics tho

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My mistake ... sexy pics good ... pornographic pics ... bad ... either escorts, geezers or attention junkies.
 
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