scoopshank
Don Juan
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I know of a few... Tinder, POF, OKC. What are you guys using?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
True. I've used POF, OKC and Match in the past. I still have a match account for the next couple of months but I don't log in very much. The girls I've met online have really been disappointing. The last one I met was a 21 year old pre-med student from my city. She looked like a 7 in her pics, met her in person and she was barely a 5 with the ego of a supermodel. Never called her again. I did date one chick I met online that I swear was BPD. That turned out to be a nightmare. So I'm gonna work on my day gamePeasantPlayer said:Done with them all, met women of all all the mentioned sites, they never look like their pictures. no personalities, super big *****s....time wasters and BPD. Forget it.....now Tinder charging for likes HA
Hooking up...PeasantPlayer said:What's whisper about?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
More like a bunch of AFC's deserpately trying to hook up... I think the app is fantastic minus all of the damn nice guys. If you have decent texting game, like you aren't boring or horny as f*ck, you can get pretty far though.sylvester the cat said:Hooking up...