"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What signals do make for us guys to approach them?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All you have to do is think of all the things you do when you like some one. You look when they are not looking then turn away quickly. You have trouble looking them in their eyes, as if they might read your mind. Most times we know when girls are checking us out, but we overthink it. If you are not overly arrogent and it really feels as if she is checking you out, she usually is.
 
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I think the biggest thing for both sexes is that you want to be around the object of your affection. You create instances that put you in a position so that you are. I think women can be pretty creative at doing this. They'll drop you subtle hints, but you should do the same too.

Look for these subtle hints, even just a certain look at a certain time can say more than several sentences could.
 
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Originally posted by tmpgstx
I think the biggest thing for both sexes is that you want to be around the object of your affection. You create instances that put you in a position so that you are. I think women can be pretty creative at doing this. They'll drop you subtle hints, but you should do the same too.

Look for these subtle hints, even just a certain look at a certain time can say more than several sentences could.
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I agree with you. Most guys would get double the amount of women they get if they just learn to be more observant.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
I agree with you. Most guys would get double the amount of women they get if they just learn to be more observant.
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Exactly. If you just open your eyes, you'll see women doing certain things like putting themselves in your vicinity, hovering in your area, things like that. Read this thread by Player Supreme, it details various methods women use to signal their interest.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=58825
 
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