"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What shud i do?

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This is the situation guyz,

Im seeing this russian girl and weve been on one date which turned out well.

The problem is my twin brother also went on a date with her best friend n he it was ****ed up, they had the worse time.

Now, recently, ive talked to her n she hasnt been very responsive.
But then im gettin pissed so i tell her straight up if she wants to chill or not?

She tells me she does, but theres a reason why shes pulling back. She tells me shes shocked bout wat my brother did on the date, n he offended her best friend without apologising.

Afterwards she tells me if i wanna see her again my bro needs to apologise to her best friend.

So i reply, that okay.. ill talk to him but u need to promise me 2 things... 1 u wont compare me with ma bro, n 2 u dnt even bring him in our relationship.

Honestly guys, i wanna see her agian... but i also know that bro's come before ho's.

so help me out here....

just a lil additional info: my bro said her friend was a total ***** on their date.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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R1ch4rd

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hate girls when they stick together like that. Maybe insecurities.

Anyway... I have to just be straight up, "I'm not my brother, and what he does shouldnt affect me or what your decision to chill with me. I can ask him, but can't make him he is his own person"

If she doesnt, that forget it and move on. Afterall, if she DOES like you and lets this hold her back, that's just her loss.
 
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Spade said:
This is the situation guyz,

Im seeing this russian girl and weve been on one date which turned out well.

The problem is my twin brother also went on a date with her best friend n he it was ****ed up, they had the worse time.

Now, recently, ive talked to her n she hasnt been very responsive.
But then im gettin pissed so i tell her straight up if she wants to chill or not?

She tells me she does, but theres a reason why shes pulling back. She tells me shes shocked bout wat my brother did on the date, n he offended her best friend without apologising.

Afterwards she tells me if i wanna see her again my bro needs to apologise to her best friend.

So i reply, that okay.. ill talk to him but u need to promise me 2 things... 1 u wont compare me with ma bro, n 2 u dnt even bring him in our relationship. This is very good that you stood your ground and mentioned this, but I have more to say below

Honestly guys, i wanna see her agian... but i also know that bro's come before ho's.

so help me out here....

just a lil additional info: my bro said her friend was a total ***** on their date.
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DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH ANY OF THIS CRAP. You have to tell this girl that your brother is a completely different person, and what he does with girls and what you do with girls are two very different things that neither of you get involved with the others business. Tell her that you will NOT accept being dragged into this drama, and that next time she wants to hang out, she has to let you know.

I would mention this situation VERY briefly to your bro, but DO NOT force him to apologize just so you can start seeing this girl again. That is very pathetic, and quite AFC. If he thinks she was being a b*tch, then just let it be. DO NOT get into big conversations with this girl about what happened, and you HAVE to tell her straight up and honestly that the next time she wants to hang out, SHE HAS TO LET YOU KNOW. Let her come back to you. DO NOT let her pull you on a string like this and leave you hanging.

What this girl is doing is putting her best friend before her "boyfriend". Not good at all. YOU have to be the main guy, NOT her friend.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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