What should my next move be?

[CockyBastard]

What should my next move be?

I’m trying to get into one of my co-workers pants. Yeah I know co-workers are a bad idea but this is a crap job that is NOT going to be my career. Besides my boss LOVES me so I won’t get fired and the chick I’m trying to fu*k is ALWAYS flirting with me in front of the other co-workers so she can’t scream sexual harassment (I return her flirting only about 20% of the time. I make it seem like I’m not that into her).

Anyway a week ago I asked her to go ice-skating with me and we agreed to go this past Sunday. When I reminded her about it on Saturday and told her a specific time she said. “I don’t know I’m going out tonight and I might be really fu*ked up, call me then to find out†Sunday came I called around 5:00pm and she didn’t pick up her phone. I'm not a pu$$y so I didn't call again or left a message; I just left it at that and continued on with my day. I saw her Monday morning and acted cool as if nothing was bothering me, which really was the case. At which point she said “I’m sorry about yesterday I was hung-over, I’ll REALLY make it up to you.†I gave her a “yeah ok†(the I don’t really believe you kind), slyly smiled and changed the topic.

Anyway I think she is playing games with me. Her not answering her phone was definitely one of them. Also yesterday during lunch she went out with some pu$$y looking guy and made sure they passed my way to parade around me. And this is where I fu*ked up. I obviously acted a little jealous. Not overly jealous just a hint of jealousy. The rest of the day though I kept it cool. Anyway what do you think my next move should be?

I no longer want to pursue a LTR with her at all because I just found out that she is one of thoes wild party girls that LIKE getting drunk. So I really don’t care where this goes but I do want to fu*k her since she is so hot. I’m thinking of cutting this whole cat and mouse act and simply saying: “So when are you going to make it up to me? And how?†Listen to her suggestion brush it off and say: “we should go to my place instead and do whatever cmes to mind.â€

What do you guys think? Any better ideas?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

If you just want to fvck her, leave the ritualistic courtship crap out of the picture. No "dates"

Yeah, that going back to my place line would just about do it... or she'll decline and then you drop the whole idea and next.

Why on earth would you want to pursue an LTR with someone right away? The way you worded it made it sound like you automatically wanted to be exclusive with her.

think short term.... you'll act accordingly.

 

[CockyBastard]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian

Why on earth would you want to pursue an LTR with someone right away? The way you worded it made it sound like you automatically wanted to be exclusive with her.

think short term.... you'll act accordingly.

Damn. Now that I think about it. That was the case. i automaticaly wanted to be excusive to her. But you said it best "think short term. you'll act accordingly" I'll definetly always keep that in mind.

Even signing myself up to this forums bootcamp.