What should I write on my POF profile?

[RichardTheFrog]

All I have now is stuff about flipping houses. Should I emphasize money? I'm not trying to say that money is the answer to everything, I'm just trying to find what will work.

They will either like my appearance or not, But what else can I write in profile and headline that will grab attention and make them talk.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Right now, it says

"I make a good amount of money flipping houses. It's really easy and I like it. I like to travel. Just ask and I'll be glad to tell you anything else you want to know."

And the title is "House Flipper"

Any ideas?

 

[Meektrop]

Why are you dating online, why not bang the real estate brokers u work with?

 

[RangerMIke]

I don't do OLD... The truth is that you get what you pay for.... always. Anything free has no value. Think about that when you dove into the world of internet dating.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I don't do OLD... The truth is that you get what you pay for.... always. Anything free has no value. Think about that when you dove into the world of internet dating.

What are you saying?

That I will always have to pay to get girls?

 

[RangerMIke]

What are you saying?

That I will always have to pay to get girls?

No. But if you are gong to engage a 'dating' service don't use one that is free. You can't hold anyone accountable for something that is given you.

 

[Red Legg]

I don't do OLD... The truth is that you get what you pay for.... always. Anything free has no value. Think about that when you dove into the world of internet dating.

The way I look at it is women I have picked up before at Barnes and Noble are just as sleazy as women I have met on Tinder,so why not do OLD ? (it's still a slice of the same segment of the female population )...is it not?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

No. But if you are gong to engage a 'dating' service don't use one that is free. You can't hold anyone accountable for something that is given you.

What are good pay sites?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The way I look at it is women I have picked up before at Barnes and Noble are just as sleazy as women I have met on Tinder,so why not do OLD ? (it's still a slice of the same segment of the female population )...is it not?

How do you pick up a girl at Barnes and Noble?

 

[The Duke]

I've met numerous girls over the years thru free dating services, and some sites I paid to use. There's not much different between the two. POF has gotten so bad I quit using it. Tinder and Bumble are pretty much all I do these days. Match is a decent pay site and has the highest concentration of attractive females with good careers.

As far as your profile goes........it needs some help!

You'd have better luck saying you tame wild animals in Africa, or you are the cow mascot at Chick-Fil-A, or you repair VCR's at Ernie's Electronic Repair, or you are an international belly button model.

Make "House flipper" sound more appealing by saying you are in property/real estate acquisitions. Keep it vague, make it sound more alluring than it is. This will generate more tingles than saying you flip houses.

A good profile has some humor in it. It explains what you are passionate about. List your likes and some words that describe you. The pics need to be top notch.

Do a search on here for "dating profiles" for more ideas.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I've met numerous girls over the years thru free dating services, and some sites I paid to use. There's not much different between the two. POF has gotten so bad I quit using it. Tinder and Bumble are pretty much all I do these days. Match is a decent pay site and has the highest concentration of attractive females with good careers.

As far as your profile goes........it needs some help!

You'd have better luck saying you tame wild animals in Africa, or you are the cow mascot at Chick-Fil-A, or you repair VCR's at Ernie's Electronic Repair, or you are an international belly button model.

Make "House flipper" sound more appealing by saying you are in property/real estate acquisitions. Keep it vague, make it sound more alluring than it is. Women are all about misleading fake schitt.

A good profile has some humor in it. It explains what you are passionate about. List your likes and some words that describe you. The pics need to be top notch.

Do a search on here for "dating profiles" for more ideas.

So even if I make $300k/year flipping houses, I'm supposed to make a joke and say I'm a lion tamer?

Are you sure?

@da dynamically says he puts "business owner" in his.

 

[Red Legg]

How do you pick up a girl at Barnes and Noble?

They have big comfortable chairs in Barnes and Noble...I wait until a target (woman) sits down and then I sit in the big comfy chair next to her and strike up a conversation,I will open with "so what are we reading today"(I have had better success at bookstores than POF)

 

[Glassguy]

I dont mind match. Bumble and Tinder are ok. Bumble is slightly better.

Just dont have your expectations too high and you'll be fine. Its entertainment. Not life or death.

BTW- I just changed my headline to Professional Lion Tamer seeks Parter for Skydiving While Salsa Dancing. All the while I own several businesses. IMO, acting funny and stupid gets much better results than being serious.

 

[RangerMIke]

So even if I make $300k/year flipping houses, I'm supposed to make a joke and say I'm a lion tamer?

Are you sure?

@da dynamically says he puts "business owner" in his.

It's never a good idea laying all your cards on the table. If she isn't curious about you she won't be interested... it's always best to let a chick unwrap you like a present... let them discover things about you over time. And if it is anyway impressive, make her drag it out of you. Chicks love that sh!t.

 

[RangerMIke]

The way I look at it is women I have picked up before at Barnes and Noble are just as sleazy as women I have met on Tinder,so why not do OLD ? (it's still a slice of the same segment of the female population )...is it not?

Just a personal preference really. If I meet a chick in person I know what I'm getting. Interacting with a chick for a OLD service... damn... could be another dude. Could be the pictures of her are photo-shopped professional photos for 10 years ago. I do find without OLD, so I really don't need it.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I dont mind match. Bumble and Tinder are ok. Bumble is slightly better.

Just dont have your expectations too high and you'll be fine. Its entertainment. Not life or death.

BTW- I just changed my headline to Professional Lion Tamer seeks Parter for Skydiving While Salsa Dancing. All the while I own several businesses. IMO, acting funny and stupid gets much better results than being serious.

What do your businesses actually do?

And how much do they make in a year?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Match, e-harmony. Pay sites. POF was full of disgusting slvts. Match for me has been pretty high quality women. I have few options socially, I live in the UK where only young people socialise really (except for places like London), and my job is 100% male. There are women like me, we find each other.

Surpirsingly, setting up as a commitment option, a steady, genuine guy looking for a GF gave me more opportunities to game than ever. I don't want to game, however. I want a LTR. They smell it on you, and although I miss many girls who want the D, I've never been the guy to give the D, but in not going out to give the D, I get opportunities to give the D to women who don't want just the D, who are better quality than women who want the D.

Confused? I am.

It makes sense.

Girls want sex, but they're rarely going to be content just ****ing random guys like they're nothing more than a slut.

Certain girls, anyway.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

It's never a good idea laying all your cards on the table. If she isn't curious about you she won't be interested... it's always best to let a chick unwrap you like a present... let them discover things about you over time. And if it is anyway impressive, make her drag it out of you. Chicks love that sh!t.

So after spending massive amounts of time and effort running a serious business and running it well. Succeeding where others have failed...

I'm supposed to reduce my life to a joke?

I don't know about that.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

A fairly low value mid 30s slvt had "No AH" on her profile.

I asked her "what's an AH"

She said "it means a$$holes, and sweetie, I can see you aren't one"

I said something back.

No response.

Just goes to show. Another slvt said "I don't want a text friend". Texted me for an hour. Would not pick up phone to call and wouldnot agree to a date.

How do you know they're sluts?

Isn't it possible that they are not?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Totally. I am using as a pejorative term for any woman who doesn't want to date me.

Got it.