"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what should I have done?

intha_burbz

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alright today this HB 9 was walking behind me and she touche dmy bag and said "nice bag". i turned around , was intimidated by this hot older girl talking to me(partly because i was exhausted). It totally took me by surprise. i just turned around and said "Hi". what should I do now. should i go approach her next time i see her and chat her up, or should i slap her ass and say "nice ass"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DaKidS3

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Slap her ass and say "nice ass".

Come back and tell us all how it goes.

Read the bible.
 
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