ok my ex-girl from about three years ago and i have been friends ever since we broke up. I see her occasionally, but not often but When we do see each other, if often by coincedence, or we're jus bumpin into each other. Like we never plan to meet really. I talk to her on the pc like everyday. We talk to each other bout everything including how her and her bf are doin. Now they're broken up and the otha day out of nowhere i asked her to go to a baseball game wit me and she said yea. Should i consider this a date or just a friend outing. like should i try and do things with her or what??
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What should i expect/do??
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
neobrood
Senior Don Juan
its up to you. Do you see her as a friend? Are you still attracted to her? Would it make you happy if you and her become boyfriend girlfriend again?
But in case you're planning to do things with her and attempt to get her back, its gonna be a HARD SHOT... no matter how much of a don juan you became in 3 years...
Good luck tho...
Well from what you said, it seems like you guys are too far into the friend's zone to become something more. It's up to you though..if you think risking your friendship with her is worth it, then go for it.
Although, there's nothing wrong with going out and doing something with her. Try to see her more often and make your decision.
Although, there's nothing wrong with going out and doing something with her. Try to see her more often and make your decision.