ok theres this girl, we have been friends a long time and i know she used to like me. The other day she was around a friends house with me and the conversation got onto sex, she said she was horny. My friend(male) said why dont we have a 3some. After all the giggling she said she didnt mind so 1 thing led to another and me and my friend banged her. I can`t belive it happened my friend(male) said its never going to happen again, My other friend(female obviously) hasn`t mentioned it. i saw her the day after but we had company of other friends so we couldn`t do or say anything as we agreed no one could ever find out. Shes coming around in like 30 mins and i havent got a clue what to say, I dont know if she just wants to be friends still or **** friends or whatever. I dont think i could go out with this girl like bf/gf even though i really like her because she agreed to a 3some with 2 lads. Any thoughts would be appreciated
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what should i do?
- Thread starter bish001
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dude, you banged her. Good. Now don't make a big deal out of it, also DON"T make her feel like a slut. Or you are an AZZ!!
Young girls experiment, they want to have sex, THEIR body hormones are raging just like yours. Sooo don't blow it for you, just act like if everything is natural, just like it is supposed to be.
DON'T EVER BRAG, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. or you will be known for not being discreet (very bad) If your friend brags (male) KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!
I WISH SOMEONE TOLD ME THIS EARLY ON.
-Sapiens
Young girls experiment, they want to have sex, THEIR body hormones are raging just like yours. Sooo don't blow it for you, just act like if everything is natural, just like it is supposed to be.
DON'T EVER BRAG, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. or you will be known for not being discreet (very bad) If your friend brags (male) KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!
I WISH SOMEONE TOLD ME THIS EARLY ON.
-Sapiens
And you are 31?Originally posted by joekerr31
dude, that's just nasty.
did your friend hit you in the eye when he blew his load?
nasty nasty nasty.
J
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"dude, that's just nasty.
did your friend hit you in the eye when he blew his load?"
:crackup:
It is partly your fault because you know you like this girl and yet you let her have a threesome with you and your friend.
I say pretend that nothing happened. That would be your best bet.
did your friend hit you in the eye when he blew his load?"
:crackup:
It is partly your fault because you know you like this girl and yet you let her have a threesome with you and your friend.
I say pretend that nothing happened. That would be your best bet.
nah, we aint bisexual curious just horny i guess no male parts touched other male parts so all good i guess. however we have "all forgot" about that and she seems really into me, i dont know what to say. The only thing i find awkward is bringing up conversation on sex (I know its pathetic but I need to re-gain my confidence) I think i must just need to get out more. lol wtf am i doing on forums?