ok theres this girl, we have been friends a long time and i know she used to like me. The other day she was around a friends house with me and the conversation got onto sex, she said she was horny. My friend(male) said why dont we have a 3some. After all the giggling she said she didnt mind so 1 thing led to another and me and my friend banged her. I can`t belive it happened my friend(male) said its never going to happen again, My other friend(female obviously) hasn`t mentioned it. i saw her the day after but we had company of other friends so we couldn`t do or say anything as we agreed no one could ever find out. Shes coming around in like 30 mins and i havent got a clue what to say, I dont know if she just wants to be friends still or **** friends or whatever. I dont think i could go out with this girl like bf/gf even though i really like her because she agreed to a 3some with 2 lads. Any thoughts would be appreciated
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what should i do?
- Thread starter bish001
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude, you banged her. Good. Now don't make a big deal out of it, also DON"T make her feel like a slut. Or you are an AZZ!!
Young girls experiment, they want to have sex, THEIR body hormones are raging just like yours. Sooo don't blow it for you, just act like if everything is natural, just like it is supposed to be.
DON'T EVER BRAG, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. or you will be known for not being discreet (very bad) If your friend brags (male) KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!
I WISH SOMEONE TOLD ME THIS EARLY ON.
-Sapiens
Young girls experiment, they want to have sex, THEIR body hormones are raging just like yours. Sooo don't blow it for you, just act like if everything is natural, just like it is supposed to be.
DON'T EVER BRAG, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. or you will be known for not being discreet (very bad) If your friend brags (male) KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!
I WISH SOMEONE TOLD ME THIS EARLY ON.
-Sapiens
And you are 31?Originally posted by joekerr31
dude, that's just nasty.
did your friend hit you in the eye when he blew his load?
nasty nasty nasty.
J
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"dude, that's just nasty.
did your friend hit you in the eye when he blew his load?"
:crackup:
It is partly your fault because you know you like this girl and yet you let her have a threesome with you and your friend.
I say pretend that nothing happened. That would be your best bet.
did your friend hit you in the eye when he blew his load?"
:crackup:
It is partly your fault because you know you like this girl and yet you let her have a threesome with you and your friend.
I say pretend that nothing happened. That would be your best bet.
nah, we aint bisexual curious just horny i guess no male parts touched other male parts so all good i guess. however we have "all forgot" about that and she seems really into me, i dont know what to say. The only thing i find awkward is bringing up conversation on sex (I know its pathetic but I need to re-gain my confidence) I think i must just need to get out more. lol wtf am i doing on forums?