What should I do?

[nan3109]

I just realized that everytime i hang with my g/f we never hang with MY friends.its ALWAYS with her friends (besides when we hang 1 on 1).does that make me a loser without any friends of my own.Thats how I'm feeling.

Most of my friends are HER friends and it pisses me off.all MY friends from before are boring and gay and its like a differ group thing where ill have one friend but that friend doesnt want to hang out with my other friends.so when i wanna hang with my girl and my friends its like 3 of us.

But with her its always me, her, and 20 of her friends.

I start college in about 2 weeks. It is a community colllege so it isnt that big and there aren't frats or anything to join other than some sports.

Other than that all my friends arent very fun and they are too few and too far between (I'll have one friend who hates my other friend and thus I only hang with one or two of my friends at a time).

What can I do to make guy friends this time in the year other than joining a sport for my college?

If you think about it, Don Juan'ing is alot easier to pick up chicks than it is to meet cool guy friends.

 

[nan3109]

bump , come on!

 

[becker]

Aren't you the guy whose GF is going away to college and you're going to have a long distance relationship? Now you add on this, it's exactly like the situation I had back in my freshman year of college, except that I was the one going away, and it was 2 hours away, not 1 1/2, but close enough.

Here's what happened. I basically hung around her friends all the time, and she never hung around mine (but we had some friends in common too). Anyways, this situation screws you over since if you ever break up with her, you're an instant loner, because you will likely lose all her friends as well. I'd make sure to keep any friends you have, but at the same time, I'd say you'll likely make some in college as well. All I know is that after I went off to college, I had girls hanging off me, knowing I had a GF back home. I never cheated on her, but I had endless opportunities.

Good luck, you just need to find some new friends, I think.

 

[squirrels]

Once you go to college, especially if you're living up there, you'll make new friends. Just be cool with people in your dorm, etc...

Seriously, if you don't mind being around her friends, then there's no problem. If they get on your nerves, just don't hang out with her except one-on-one or with one or two of her friends.

You don't need to go out with her every time she goes out, and you're seeing her 1 on 1...I really don't know what the problem is. If you want more/better friends, you should want them because YOU want cool people to associate with, not because you want to impress your girl or her friends.

 

[nan3109]

I DO want cooler people to associate with.Thats the thing, all my current friends are very boring, never throw parties or know of any, and therefore I'm constantly bored and the only parties I go to are the ones I go to with my g/f that she knows about and the people there I never know so its kinda pointless.

I tried hanging with Oxide who lives about 40 mins away from me but that just isn't working out to well right now but he seems like a cool dude to hang out and party with.