"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What should i do

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backseatjuan

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Well i mean she is fine 70% of the time but once i start talking about other woman she flips ****.
Yes, exactly the same thing. Thing is man, she is fcked in her brains, jealousy over absolutely nothing. Take a note of her behavior, she should have signs of bpd somewhere hidden in her. Even if there are none, this is a big ass red flag. She has delusions, and alcohol exacerbates it. '
 

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Well i mean she is fine 70% of the time but once i start talking about other woman she flips ****.
How many times are you going to say that? You sound like a fvcking broken record.
Here are you choices bro:

1.) Suck it up and enjoy the 70% and stop b!tching about the other 30%.
2.) Dump her @ss.

Women will show you who they are if you listen. She showed you. It isnt looking good. Either deal with it or move on.

There should be no more sane replies to this thread unless you're attention wh0ring for sympathy on here.
 
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