"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My girl and I were texting yesterday and I said some rude chit as a joke. We were talking about our dreams of what we wanted to be doing in the future! This was the exact part where the convo goes bad!

Her: You're so funny lol
Me: Lol you're telling me stuff I already know, but all jokes aside I support anything you do
Her: I appreciate that :)!
Me: I don't care if you appreciate it or not lol ( I was joking)
Me: Lol ignore my last message, I was being rude! Tell me more about your goals!
Her: No, you're too rude, goodbye
Me: Sometimes I just say rude stuff as a joke and bye!

Is there anyway to fix this? !!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't try to "fix" this texting crash with more texting. See her in person. Don't go touchy-feely, be the same as always. If she brings it up, apologize ONCE.

Side note: Are you familiar with exegetes? They read and interpret the bible and other scriptures. Years can be spent on minute distinctions between two meanings. Nothing can be "proven", but everything can be argued. Well, women are the same with text messages. The less material you feed them, the better. "ok cu @ 8" would actually be the ideal response for a guy ...
 
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Moroder said:
Don't try to "fix" this texting crash with more texting. See her in person. Don't go touchy-feely, be the same as always. If she brings it up, apologize ONCE.

Side note: Are you familiar with exegetes? They read and interpret the bible and other scriptures. Years can be spent on minute distinctions between two meanings. Nothing can be "proven", but everything can be argued. Well, women are the same with text messages. The less material you feed them, the better. "ok cu @ 8" would actually be the ideal response for a guy ...
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My car is in the shop, so it is going to be quite hard to see her today.
 
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I'm confused with your text.. Can she pick you up? No?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Can you take a taxi? It can help to see her. I did once. I was confused with the conversation.
 
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Can you take a taxi? It can help to see her. I did once. I was confused with the conversation.
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I could always take a taxi, but she lives quite far. I was just thinking I should just call her and explain that it was a joke.
 
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I could always take a taxi, but she lives quite far. I was just thinking I should just call her and explain that it was a joke.
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Taxi might be too much money. What if she is too mad to answer the phone? A bus? Seeing her in person is what you should do. The phone already screwed you up.
 
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Taxi might be too much money. What if she is too mad to answer the phone? A bus? Seeing her in person is what you should do. The phone already screwed you up.
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Yeah I could take the bus to see her! She would most definitely pick up the phone though. I feel like I should say what I need to say and leave the ball in her court! Talk to some other girls
 
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If your girlfriends knows you are sometimes joking around she shouldn't take it so bad. just leave her be for a day , she will forget about it.

Jeez... don't get crazy every time she get upset. also don't apologize.. when you do that it shows you are weak.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ignore her. If she cares at all about you she'll text you soon.

If she wants to play immature she can continue her act. Don't apologise.
 
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Ignore her. If she cares at all about you she'll text you soon.

If she wants to play immature she can continue her act. Don't apologise.
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Exactly.
If she pulled this sh!t now what will happen when you guys argue or fight.

ignore her and do your stuff until she comes around. you apologizing gives her the sense she can behave like this and not get punished. set her straight.
 
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Lol.

she said Bye, so **** her. Let her say bye and lets see where that gets her.

If you give into this, she will control you like a b1tch in the future and see you as a weak man.

She said bye, so thats it. No contact.

Until she re-contacts you then sure, try to work things out.
 
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