I've been talking to this girl for a couple months and lately we haven't talked that much lately. Last week, I messaged her and we had a normal conversation, until she switched topics about personality. I basically told her that she seems like the type to be passive aggressive type and that she loves to avoid certain situations. This was December 31st and since then she hasn't replied. Should I text her again and apologize or just move on.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What should I do?
- Thread starter RealGuy96
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
What do you want with this girl? Do you want her to just respond to your text?
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Okay... first thing you have to do is to bury any thoughts that you want a relationship. She will pick up on this and this will scare her off. Women run from guys that want a relationship and end up in relationships with guys that come off as just wanting to fvck them. Yes I know this makes little sense but it is true. You need to put out the vibe that all you want to do is have fun and bang them... then let THEM decide they want you exclusively.
She might be flaking because she senses what you want... Women always know, men just aren't as good at acting as girls.
Back off give her space and see if she reaches out to you. If she does make a date then it's game on. Remember just put out the vibe that you just want fun.
She might be flaking because she senses what you want... Women always know, men just aren't as good at acting as girls.
Back off give her space and see if she reaches out to you. If she does make a date then it's game on. Remember just put out the vibe that you just want fun.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Moroder
Don Juan
Charming. And you wonder why she didn't reply? ;-)RealGuy96 said:
Come on, the next time you want a relationship you 1) follow Ranger Mike on this and 2) don't text her a DSM-5 excerpt.
kevinjosph
Banned
As much as it makes me grind my teeth, does having all my music forced onto Youtube's music service really just not matter all that much?
Come on bro, it's been over a month, forget it and move on. Think of how many other chicks you could've banged instead of waiting on her to text. A month of wasted timeRealGuy96 said:
:crackup:RangerMIke said:
Back off and give her space? It's been over a month dude. How much more space does she need? She's been a month flake, forget about it.
You can never really get a positive reaction from telling someone about their bad habbits. Next time you get those kind of questions, always go for her positive sides. And if you think you've nailed one of her bad habbits then always give her a scapegoat, otherwise she won't take it lightly. But early on you should just avoid pointing that stuff out, she'll feel like you're judging her and who gave you the right to judge her anyway?