Ok so I met this girl and we get along pretty good, but we have an understanding not to get too close because I leave for the Navy boot camp in a month and we just met a week ago. We had sex a few times, then one night she cries to me about her bf that broke up with her a few weeks ago. I basically said "oh that sucks" "it'll be ok" blah blah and she took that as me listening to her. She then preceded to say "I'm scared I'm starting to really like you" I told her that I like her but I really wasn't focused on it because I leave for the navy. The next day she goes out with a different ex, and a couple of guy friends and asks me to go along, to which I declined. Now today we were supposed to go on a date to which she cancelled on me saying she was sick. "I said no biggie feel better!" She didn't respond or reschedule our planned date, which I then thought next! Well 10 hours later she sends me a message casual message which then turns into her asking me to send pics with my shirt off and how she's horny and wants me to fvck her tomorrow, but the shinnangans she pulled earlier today kinda ticked me off and I wanna say fvck off but sex is sex so I'm considering it. Basically what should I do? It seems she has control now, do I keep seeing her or just say next?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What should I do?
- Thread starter ProdigyX
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Bro do you seriously need a bunch of guys online to validate you and tell you to sleep with her? Just do what ever the fvck you want man. In a month you'll be gone. It's not a hard decision. This isn't a life or death dire scenario. Its a girl who says "i want to have sex" bahahaha, just do it or dont.
If you cant make a decision as easy as this i fear for your future
If you cant make a decision as easy as this i fear for your future
Peaks&Valleys
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You played it well so far.
Don't send pics with your shirt off. You've already banged her. She's the one who should be sending you pics.
Go bang her out. If she begs for pics, say no. If she says: "send me pics or I'm not having sex with you" then say: "see ya, it's been fun."
There's your decision.
It's pretty simple, let the girl hang herself if she's inclined to. If she acts nice then you will bang her. If not then you won't. You're giving her the decision, but you're dictating it. She can say: "Yes, let's bang." But it's gonna be on your terms.
On that note: She may just be trying to be flirty and "fun". No need to be a hard a$$ in those situations. Give her a tease here and there or a dose of C&F. It's okay to keep it at that level. However, don't give away to demands and start going down the beta route. She's the one who is lucky to be with YOU. That is your mindset.
Don't send pics with your shirt off. You've already banged her. She's the one who should be sending you pics.
Go bang her out. If she begs for pics, say no. If she says: "send me pics or I'm not having sex with you" then say: "see ya, it's been fun."
There's your decision.
It's pretty simple, let the girl hang herself if she's inclined to. If she acts nice then you will bang her. If not then you won't. You're giving her the decision, but you're dictating it. She can say: "Yes, let's bang." But it's gonna be on your terms.
On that note: She may just be trying to be flirty and "fun". No need to be a hard a$$ in those situations. Give her a tease here and there or a dose of C&F. It's okay to keep it at that level. However, don't give away to demands and start going down the beta route. She's the one who is lucky to be with YOU. That is your mindset.