Ok so I met this girl and we get along pretty good, but we have an understanding not to get too close because I leave for the Navy boot camp in a month and we just met a week ago. We had sex a few times, then one night she cries to me about her bf that broke up with her a few weeks ago. I basically said "oh that sucks" "it'll be ok" blah blah and she took that as me listening to her. She then preceded to say "I'm scared I'm starting to really like you" I told her that I like her but I really wasn't focused on it because I leave for the navy. The next day she goes out with a different ex, and a couple of guy friends and asks me to go along, to which I declined. Now today we were supposed to go on a date to which she cancelled on me saying she was sick. "I said no biggie feel better!" She didn't respond or reschedule our planned date, which I then thought next! Well 10 hours later she sends me a message casual message which then turns into her asking me to send pics with my shirt off and how she's horny and wants me to fvck her tomorrow, but the shinnangans she pulled earlier today kinda ticked me off and I wanna say fvck off but sex is sex so I'm considering it. Basically what should I do? It seems she has control now, do I keep seeing her or just say next?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What should I do?
- Thread starter ProdigyX
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Bro do you seriously need a bunch of guys online to validate you and tell you to sleep with her? Just do what ever the fvck you want man. In a month you'll be gone. It's not a hard decision. This isn't a life or death dire scenario. Its a girl who says "i want to have sex" bahahaha, just do it or dont.
If you cant make a decision as easy as this i fear for your future
If you cant make a decision as easy as this i fear for your future
Peaks&Valleys
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You played it well so far.
Don't send pics with your shirt off. You've already banged her. She's the one who should be sending you pics.
Go bang her out. If she begs for pics, say no. If she says: "send me pics or I'm not having sex with you" then say: "see ya, it's been fun."
There's your decision.
It's pretty simple, let the girl hang herself if she's inclined to. If she acts nice then you will bang her. If not then you won't. You're giving her the decision, but you're dictating it. She can say: "Yes, let's bang." But it's gonna be on your terms.
On that note: She may just be trying to be flirty and "fun". No need to be a hard a$$ in those situations. Give her a tease here and there or a dose of C&F. It's okay to keep it at that level. However, don't give away to demands and start going down the beta route. She's the one who is lucky to be with YOU. That is your mindset.
Don't send pics with your shirt off. You've already banged her. She's the one who should be sending you pics.
Go bang her out. If she begs for pics, say no. If she says: "send me pics or I'm not having sex with you" then say: "see ya, it's been fun."
There's your decision.
It's pretty simple, let the girl hang herself if she's inclined to. If she acts nice then you will bang her. If not then you won't. You're giving her the decision, but you're dictating it. She can say: "Yes, let's bang." But it's gonna be on your terms.
On that note: She may just be trying to be flirty and "fun". No need to be a hard a$$ in those situations. Give her a tease here and there or a dose of C&F. It's okay to keep it at that level. However, don't give away to demands and start going down the beta route. She's the one who is lucky to be with YOU. That is your mindset.