Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What should I do ?

Rave18

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Met a lady (married), around five days back, at a refresher course related to Stock Market investing. We got talking and I mentioned that (eventually) I want to start an investment company. She showed interest and is willing to support me monetarily (very tempting, but a bit surprising cause we are absolute strangers and I never got into any details about the how part.).

The problem is she seems more interested in me than my idea and am not so sure of her intention(s). Should I see which direction this actually goes in or is this a bad idea ?

Will update if things move ahead.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hudpes

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There is still a chance, that you read her wrong and she's only interested businesswise. You won't know for sure what it is if you don't check further. Analyzing the possibilites at this point is moot.
 

Rave18

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Have kept in touch with the lady in question and she has finally put forth her conditions, for supporting me

/> 1. I will have to shift to her city (we live in different cities)
and 2. As her husband isn't at home much, she would love to spend that time with me :)

Told her am not interested. The thought of easy money made it extremely hard to refuse though :p

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*To the posters below : Thank You for your replies, but please read this and the above posts carefully.*
 
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Montague_Leach

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Rave18 said:
Met a lady (married)
Don't fool around with married women my friend, being a homewrecker going after married poosey is for the vulnerable. I knew a lad who spent an afternoon with a married lady, her husband broke his legs three days later after he found out about their rendezvous.
 

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Good advice above. Hunting on another mans ranch only makes you a god poacher.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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