"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What should I do ?

Rave18

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Met a lady (married), around five days back, at a refresher course related to Stock Market investing. We got talking and I mentioned that (eventually) I want to start an investment company. She showed interest and is willing to support me monetarily (very tempting, but a bit surprising cause we are absolute strangers and I never got into any details about the how part.).

The problem is she seems more interested in me than my idea and am not so sure of her intention(s). Should I see which direction this actually goes in or is this a bad idea ?

Will update if things move ahead.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hudpes

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There is still a chance, that you read her wrong and she's only interested businesswise. You won't know for sure what it is if you don't check further. Analyzing the possibilites at this point is moot.
 

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Have kept in touch with the lady in question and she has finally put forth her conditions, for supporting me

/> 1. I will have to shift to her city (we live in different cities)
and 2. As her husband isn't at home much, she would love to spend that time with me :)

Told her am not interested. The thought of easy money made it extremely hard to refuse though :p

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*To the posters below : Thank You for your replies, but please read this and the above posts carefully.*
 
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Montague_Leach

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Rave18 said:
Met a lady (married)
Don't fool around with married women my friend, being a homewrecker going after married poosey is for the vulnerable. I knew a lad who spent an afternoon with a married lady, her husband broke his legs three days later after he found out about their rendezvous.
 

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Good advice above. Hunting on another mans ranch only makes you a god poacher.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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