"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what should i do??

shubh

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good frNdS hOld your hAnd when u need them....
Bt,
TRUe FRNDS hOld your hAnd mOre tiGhtLy when u sAy....
LeAve Me AlOne....!!!

this a status posted by a girl..with whom i have a very confused relationship.probably she thinks that i am creepy..what should be the appropriate reply?should i make fun of her or should i support her??please tel me the appropriate comment that i should post..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LearningSlowly

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This girl is retarded. She actually has a mental condition, and it will be a very frustrating relationship when you have to spoon feed her porridge every morning. That's not a metaphor, I think she is literally retarded.

Move on dude. Why would you bother with a drama queen?
 

alxrose04

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Let a girl problem be her own problem. They ted to be stupid, and will literally drive you insane if you try to help her with it. Let her be. Save yourself the headache, brother.
 
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