"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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What Should I do?

graham2335

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Where I use to work I saw this girl on the bus that I started to like, finally got the courage to ask to sit next to her and ask to talk.
She said she doesn’t talk much but neither do I. (funny enough she talked more than me) and made small talk like where do you work, do you drive etc. Anyway after that I didn’t see her for a week. Was she too shy? Didn’t she want to see me?
Then I saw her again, but she never approached me. Does that mean she doesn’t like me?
Shortly after that I lost my job, but didn’t want to tell my parents straight away so caught the later bus. Sometime in the second week, I saw her on the later bus , was she just curious or did she like me…however she still didn’t approach me…In the past only once she caught the later bus.

It’s been 3 years and I still think about her, might see her again as I had an interview near where she works, if I do she will think I’m stalking her all the places I end up near her.
Also how would I approach her again she gets on after me I didn’t ask her a name last time.
If I don’t get the job I’m thinking of catching the bus anyway just to see her, what lie would I make up and is this wise move.
 

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Eternal_water

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This sounds afcish to the extreme and severely oneitus (or however its spelled) Do you mean its 3 years since you spoke to her?!?!

I'd forget about her and focus more on girls in general.

And I'd heavily reccomend getting stuck into to this http://www.nick-hill.com/djb/
 

graham2335

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Eternal_water said:
This sounds afcish to the extreme and severely oneitus (or however its spelled) Do you mean its 3 years since you spoke to her?!?!

I'd forget about her and focus more on girls in general.

And I'd heavily reccomend getting stuck into to this http://www.nick-hill.com/djb/

I would but what if she liked me too.
either way if i found out if she liked me or not i could move on.
I dont think its that much oneitus as in the past theres been girls ive like much more.

will i ever meet anyone better then her.

3 years since i seen or spoke to her.
 
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