"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What should i do?

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gotballz

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hey guys,

Im kinda having an issue here n its family related.

Ive got like this twin brother and we r in all the same classes n were both in grade 11. Im the more social one out of the both of us...n the problem is...im basically friends with most of th epeople in the school and a few of my close buddies who are also friends(not close friends) with my twin get in a huge argument with my bro. So both my buddies r goin against my bro(the fight is verbally though) and i tell them to stop n **** i end it but my bro hates them and they hate him.

Now the problem is im obviously not gonna go against my bro n **** but these guys r like my close friends. And the thing is firstly, i dnt know who to sit beside in class(my friends sit in one corner and my bro in another). Secondly, i dnt want to lose these guys theyr like my homies but my bro's family. So im caught up in between n im not sure wat to do.

Another thing to consider my brother isnt good with almost anyone in the school. In the past ive had friends that ive cut connection with because of him. And honestly ive had enough of this shyt n i dnt wanna do it anymore but again hes family.....so im not sure what i should do :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alphaace

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Its a long road after highschool. Your brother will always be there, you might still be friends with one or two of these so called best friends if you plan on attending college afterwards. Unless your brother is in the complete wrong of whatever the situation is you should side with him.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No-Arms-Duck

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Just bang him already. The best talks you'll ever have are in the glowing minutes after sexual intercourse
 
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hermeydm7

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**** your friends, your bro is forever. bros before hoes, nomesayin?
 
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Natural Vibe

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Your brother takes priority. Your friends are also important.

Tell them to **** off and leave him alone, since he's family. If they're really your friends, they'll respect your wishes.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Try to bury the hatchet between them. Try to explain your brother with love in a better way. Family comes first so you need to stand by your brother.
 
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