What should i Do

[Ztr1der]

hey guys this is my first post,iv been a lurker for awhile now like a year anyway heres my dilemma

So last night i was at a dance thing and i was chilling with my friends and i met a few chicks anyway we go dance have some fun im jamming it out i dont care what any1 thinks all the girls are dancing around me laughing having a good time.then we go out talk i get there names ect then i few mins later we go dance again and i start grinding on this girl and my friend pushes me and then the moment was over.she then walks off looking alil pissed off i see her later in the night and she seems a lil shy now but also cold towards me


So what i wanna ask is should i try go for this chick or forget bout her?

thanks

 

[KontrollerX]

1. Why did your friend do something so fvcking stupid and why is he such an idiotic
c0ckblocker to begin with and if it was just an honest mistake or some light hearted playing around on his part that accidentilly fvcked up your game why didn't you include more details about that in your opening post as without details we cannot help you as fully as possible?

2. She's a lost cause who you will forget about unless she eventually comes back into your orbit and makes herself available to your advances again via the obvious signs of smiling, laughter and general overly friendly behavior.

 

[Ztr1der]

1. i think he did this because i was getting more attention from the girls than him but he is my friend cause we have a good time usually at school

2.I will probably be seeing her again cause im friends with her sister so hopefully she is abit more friendly cause i really got along well with her

 

[KontrollerX]

Alright those were helpful answers.

In anycase its a bad idea to keep this friend around you as he's a crab in a barrel trying to pull you down to his lowly level of non success and thus he is a false friend and jealous hater but if you can't bring yourself to ending the friendship you'll just have to find ways to run game on chicks when he's not around and make it a point not to bring him along with you when you are on the prowl for b!tches.

I don't know what your situation is with cars and driving and going to parties and all that good stuff but assuming you are not at the driving stage yet keep the advice I gave you in mind for the near future on how to deal with "friends" like this.

 

[Ztr1der]

Thanks man Much appreciated!

 

[Kidd]

wow thats a really shady move.

at this point you should be questioning if he is even your real friend

he probably got jealous, is there any history between them two?

 

[Ztr1der]

WEll they have known eachother for awhile and i only met her last night

 

[eaglez1177]

Wow bro. I can tell you right now, that kid is NOT your "friend". Hes just some jealous c*ckblocker who doesn't give a sh*t about you and puts girls over his friends. Thats really low that he would push you out of the way.

If ANYONE ever did something like that to me I would throw them to the fuking ground, and quite possibly beat their ass.

 

[Ztr1der]

lol thats a good idea but he is actually quite strong he holds the U16 South african rowing record lol.But thanks alot for the replies guys i really appreciate it

 

[Cassanova_Child]

lol thats a good idea but he is actually quite strong he holds the U16 South african rowing record lol.But thanks alot for the replies guys i really appreciate it

he definetely doesnt sound like you're friend... but after htat piece of info, I would not suggest trying to fight him if he pulls some ******* **** again, unless you're a UFC cage fighter or something.

If it was one of those joking things that guys do a lot, then its alright and i'd forgive him, but if he was deliberately trying to mess you're game up i'd be pretty pissed and probably drop him right there.

 

[Analyzeit]

Some people just do that ****, I don't know why... I wouldn't go as far to say jealous ****blocker and all that ****. I'd try to hang round with him probably a little less though just in case i'm wrong.

But in my experience, guys just do that kind of stuff just playing round and I know it's not cool but i bet he and him had a good laugh when she completely ditched you and got annoyed. I know if that happened to my mate it would be a story worth telling again tomorrow and probably the day after that aswell, I sure wouldn't take it personally.

Sure if its deliberate ****blocking ditch him, but if he just playing gutted the laugh they had wasn't for you it was at you.

My advice try an hang round with him a bit less if you getting ya game on, and she is highly likely a lost cause...

Someone has to make a thread for more personal questions like this, please somebody!! lol

 

[Ztr1der]

turns out every1 agreed with me that it was really **** thing for him to Do but he said sorry to me and he was just messing around lol o well ill just be friends with her lol


thanks