"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What Should I Do??

bengboy

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There's this girl named Bella...I met her almost two years ago, she has a perfect 10 body and claimed to be a virgin at the time. On our first date I tried to kiss her, but she turned away and told me she had a boyfriend. She was all about the cuddling though (attention *****).
Turns out her man's in the Army and he's hardly ever here. According to Bella, they've become emotionally distant and he joined the military because he doesn't care about their relationship. Who knows...anyway, I continued spending time with her and we ended up having sex a few times.
However my conscience kicked in and I haven't slept with her for at least 9 months, even though we still spend time together and I know I could hit it whenever I want. I'm also quite sure that if I asked her to be with me she'd break up with him. But for obvious reasons I don't exactly trust her.
Basically I want to screw her brains out for awhile but not be tied down in a relationship. However she's obviously not going to let go of one branch till she's got ahold of the next. We're hanging out tonight...she's become very attached lately and was texting me today, "Tell me what to do." I know she means, "Tell me to break up with my boyfriend and be with you."
She may be a scandalous ho, but she definitely has real feelings for me. I've known her long enough to be sure of it. Any ideas on how to play this situation out? Other than next her that is. I'm not willing to do that because I have never in my life come across chemistry like we have.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Telos

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bengboy said:
However my conscience kicked in and I haven't slept with her for at least 9 months
There's your problem. Lose the conscience and hit that vagina with unwavering speed and heroic, prodigious violence. No regrets my good man.

Seriously though, If you both have mutual feelings and ideal chemistry together I see no ethical dilemma at all. You both want each-other. Just go into it with the right frame and deny commitment when she brings the option up. Remain vague with your responses. Personally I would never do this, but eventually when you get to the point where you feel you can trust her, move into a relationship.
 

PectoralisMajor

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she's a smart girl - she knows its not going to work out with army man, so your the next in line. Nothing wrong this this aside from the fact she cheated on him while with you, so you can only expect she will do the same on you if things dont quite work out.

you've been warned ! thats not to say dont go for it, rekon you should, but just dont get attached
 

TanzaniaMan

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Just bend her over and hit her doggie style, that way you dont have to look in her eyes......If you are laying the pipe properly, she will come to you
 

Leporello

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Balderdash. Guys in the Army don't have any illusions. Hit it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TanzaniaMan

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Like I said, bed her ovr doggie, hit it good, pull it out, nut all over her back, then flip her over, stick it in her mouth and make her lick you clean.

Cause if you aint treatin her like that in the bedroom, she will find a guy who will
 

j0n024

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hahah guess that movie Jarhead is right, once you join the army say goodbye to your girlfriend, I wouldnt fvck with a guys girl if he was in the military because well that part where the guy gets a videotape of his girl fvcking a fat piece of sh1t just pissed me off and would probably piss anyone off so I wouldnt do anything with the girl.

You say she is scandalous but you have never met anyone with as much chemistry as you guys have gotten.....Idiots.....you already know she fvcks around yet you have "Chemistry," HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH.
 
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