"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what should I do?

seth03

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So theres this girl i've been trying to get on for the past few weeks. I have only met up with her at our work's happy hours, which are on thursdays, but I never see her at all throughout the week. First time I met her, got her number, whatever. I call her to hang out on the weekend, she was busy when I called, so I forgot about it. Today was the 3rd time I saw her at our happy hour. She acted all standoffish the whole time, but whenever I laid kino on her, ANY type of kino on her, she welcomed it. I can keep my hand on the small of her back for like 5 seconds, and she has no problem.

However, she acts like she is a lot cooler than she is (or it might be that she is so shy that she doesn't know how to act). She mentions that she will have a party at her place once her roomates are done with it, and I ask if i can come, and she says "no". There are other parts of our convos where she acts standoffish and fairly rude. YET, she accepts my kino all the time. AND, when I saw a guy trying to hit on her and touch her, she got all squirmy with him.

ALSO...she never calls me, but whenever I call, she answers right away, or calls me back immediately if she doesn't have her phone on her. She has never initiated ONE call. I have no problem with this, but that, combined with the fact that she acts rude to a lot of what I say, is making me confused.

Do her actions (kino acceptance and fact that she quickly and happily answers all my calls) speak louder than her words, or is this b!tch just a phuckin retard? help!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go pick up a fat chick and fvck the hell out of her. Then get another one after that. Then go for a not so fattie, then another after that. Hell, go for a hot girl, what do you have to lose? Keep this rhythm up.


Forget the first chick, she's not worth thinking about.
 

ViciousDADogg

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She's a pig. Why would you want to fvck her. Find a princess, fast.




Yea. It's possible she's holding off because she likes you. But that's the definition for these women, pigs. That's saying she wants more than a fvck. But it could also be she's attention wh0re. That's saying she does not want a fvck.

Her actions are to draw you more in. So I think it's the first.


Could be the rules girl. Read rules and play rules. If she is the rules girl you should be able to fvck her. Only question is, does it worth it? I can't picture myself fvcking a pig. Like wearing hiheels and stolkings, just woulnd't feel right.
 

Obsidian

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she sounds like kind of a b1tch. Why don't you do a forum search on "Anti-Dump's Machine" part 1.

And even if she is interested in you, she obviously doesn't know how to show it -- so why should you hang out with her? NEVER tolerate disrespect, especially from some broad you met in a bar.

That said, good work on the #-close. Now go find someone better, and get her number instead.
 
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