What Should I do? X GF Cheated on me....

[dustmuffin]

Some of you know that I was dumped and by mistake I tried to get back with my X. I ****ed her during our make up period and I think she was ****ing an X marine at the same time. Got rid of me for a real Alpha. I think she had been ****ing him for months due to her actions. He is an old BF and She told me Oh no there is no one else...I knew she was lying by her actions and body language.

So should I notify him? She is an excellent liar and mentally unstable. It might send her over the edge. She tried to turn me into an orbiter with the LJBF **** but I said no. She can get emotional support from gung ho......


Should I let her know that I know? Thoughts?

 

[DonJuanit0]

Let it go... let it gooooo

 

[Young OG]

I've been cheated on before. You need to just forget about her. Delete her number, email, and fb. Delete her from your life. The faster you remove her from your life and forget her, the faster you will feel better. Telling that guy about how she is or telling her you know about them banging won't change anything or make things better. It's a waste of time and makes you look butt hurt. Your better off looking like you don't care, because eventually you wont.

 

[dustmuffin]

I've been cheated on before. You need to just forget about her. Delete her number, email, and fb. Delete her from your life. The faster you remove her from your life and forget her, the faster you will feel better. Telling that guy about how she is or telling her you know about them banging won't change anything or make things better. It's a waste of time and makes you look butt hurt. Your better off looking like you don't care, because eventually you wont.

I did all of that. She is just a sneaky, manipulative ***** that thought she could get one over on me. I don't care....Because of the way she treated me. She is dead to me. I asked her and she bald faced lied to me! Now I could take it, but then probably not. I was very upset. So she was trying to protect me. Did get one last bang in. There is that. I am feeling better.

 

[Young OG]

I did all of that. She is just a sneaky, manipulative ***** that thought she could get one over on me. I don't care....Because of the way she treated me. She is dead to me. I asked her and she bald faced lied to me! Now I could take it, but then probably not. I was very upset. So she was trying to protect me. Did get one last bang in. There is that. I am feeling better.

You said you don't care, but you do care or you wouldn't have created this thread. I'm not trying to be ass hole, but you need to hear that. I have dealt with a cheating, lying, manipulative ex myself and it's not easy. This was before I changed. You got your last bang in, now it's time to stop thinking about her and move on. Do whatever possible to keep your mind off of her. Go hit the gym hard or something.

 

[DonJuanit0]

You said you don't care, but you do care or you wouldn't have created this thread. I'm not trying to be ass hole, but you need to hear that. I have dealt with a cheating, lying, manipulative ex myself and it's not easy. This was before I changed. You got your last bang in, now it's time to stop thinking about her and move on. Do whatever possible to keep your mind off of her. Go hit the gym hard or something.

Exactly my thoughts when I read the 2nd answer! You can also tell by the language and the swearing that you still care mate.

Take a look at your options,

1) Confront her.

Nothing will come out of it! You will look like you're hurt, she might seem like she cares but she won't really... Even if she did care though, what's your win here besides hurting her back? (pitiful if you ask me)

2) Ignore her.

Struggle with yourself for some time until you forget her and move on. As OG mentioned, gym, new women, new activities etc. can help you keep your brain occupied.

 

[dustmuffin]

Ok guys, I will take the high road. Thanks for the advice. She probably wouldn't care. She has her new guy and is done with me. She did me a favor. Thanks guys.

 

[dustmuffin]

its not about the high road. it just doesnt accomplish anything. if your ex agrees to be his dependa down the line hes gonna have bigger problems than you ever would. you deal with your shlt. he can deal with jody and everything that comes with it.

the most i would do (if she really thinks you dont know) is tell her that i know. just her.

your ego is whats telling you to try and get some type of revenge. this case doesnt warrant it. be done with it and start living a life you can respect having lived when youre an old man.

Very true. During the make up period she told me she suffers from general anxiety disorder. Things were fine with us until she went off her meds. She also suffered mental abuse as a child. Her mother is a witch and treats her dad like ****. These are all red flags. Whomever marries her will suffer eventually. Plus this guy is 61 she is 47. If she stays married for a time she will be wiping his ass when she is about 65....Guy will be 80....Her whole family is nutty.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Very true. During the make up period she told me she suffers from general anxiety disorder. Things were fine with us until she went off her meds. She also suffered mental abuse as a child. Her mother is a witch and treats her dad like ****. These are all red flags.

So... she told you all this... and yet... you continued to date her??

:kick:

 

[Charlie S.]

Become a bitter angry MGTOW like "Poon King" and Desdinonothing hating women for the rest of your life calling other men faggots.

 

[carpaccio]

Become a bitter angry MGTOW like "Poon King" and Desdinonothing hating women for the rest of your life calling other men faggots.

Poof queen yankit drooler and desdididdler sarge in mens bath houses.

So sausage

 

[expos]

Some of you know that I was dumped and by mistake I tried to get back with my X. I ****ed her during our make up period and I think she was ****ing an X marine at the same time. Got rid of me for a real Alpha. I think she had been ****ing him for months due to her actions. He is an old BF and She told me Oh no there is no one else...I knew she was lying by her actions and body language.

So should I notify him? She is an excellent liar and mentally unstable. It might send her over the edge. She tried to turn me into an orbiter with the LJBF **** but I said no. She can get emotional support from gung ho......


Should I let her know that I know? Thoughts?

My thoughts? She sounds like a piece of sh*t. Get yourself a real woman, not some girl who thinks it's fun to screw around with two men at the same time and LIE to them.

There is nothing in this thread that makes me think she's worth any of your time.

Who cares if he's more "alpha" than you. Alphas don't care about other Alphas.

Getting rid of her allows to you to find a better woman.