The pickup:
I seduced the hell out of this chick (let's call her Kim) at a party several weeks ago. I grinded her, I had my hands in her pants throughout the party, and she was TOTALLY digging the attention doing that deep gaze, kissing me, and being all smiles. The day after, Kim ignored my text. I bump into Kim at a party that same day and she totally blows me off, but who cares, I'm out making out with a girl that looks like a model and getting model girl's best friend's number (whoops, lol). She isn't very controlled in her attempts to ignore me, though, as she texts me her my number the following Sunday.
Kim and I end up running into each other the next Monday at a conference, and boom, she's like "hey blueline" while I'm trying to ignore her because, while she is cute, she is 19 and the model girl is way hotter/more mature/probably smarter. After the conference is over, she starts talking to me and talks about how she was just drunk last Friday and doesn't want to get into anything with me. I'm like "OK, whatever." However, at the party after the conference, I sit on a couch next to her and boom the kino is on like a mother****er. She tries to kiss me at the end, but claims I'm too tall, and walks off muttering something about how I'm such a vain, hot man (LOL). I also find out she's got some crazy psychological issues this day and has underdeveloped social skills (not autistic, just bad conversational ability).
The next day, we hang out at starbucks and I'm just starring this girl down letting her talk about whatever and I just keep going "uh huh, yeah, hmmm, OK, oh really" in a deep, soft voice. I'm feeling her legs up with my foot. Eventually, she just says "I need to see you somewhere more private" and we makeout hardcore in my car. I drop her off at her place after we agree to **** the next day when roommates are out of the picture.
On the day we're supposed to ****, she sends me a text saying "I created a pro/con chart of ****ing you and the pros def outweigh the cons, so come over." I'm thinking "wtfffff ***** what is wrong with you? why are you making charts about this?", but I come over anyways. The sex is surprisingly really good, so I continue ****ing w/ no strings attached for the next week or two.
A few weeks in:
Things start getting more involved. She reveals that she has feelings for me and I kinda have some for her, too. She also reveals that she's bipolar (medicated) and has very, very few female friends. She also starts being a bit of a **** when we're around friends trying to put my game down and saying that she thought I was a major creep when we first met right in front of everybody, and that I'm a "fake player." Seconds later, she's making out with me in front of them, grabbing my ****, etc and I totally dig this aspect of her. She really doesn't a give a **** what other people think.
On top of this, I encounter the jealous side of this girl in massive quantities this same week she starts being a **** to me around friends. While carpooling with a female friend, I start talking to my female friend much more than I'm talking to Kim (Kim's has very awkward conversational skills, it's harder to talk to someone that can only talk about her problems with women, sexuality (her sexuality, specifically), relationships, problems with her family, and narrow interests) and the female friend starts hitting on me in front of Kim. After we drop off my female friend, Kim starts bawling saying how she hates women, how I totally ignored her at this political fundraiser (duh, I'm not gonna tailor the conversation towards her narrow scope of conversations she feels comfortable in) remarks about how I treat her like a pitstop.
Now we're officially in a relationship (not on facebook, but we talked about it today) and I think she's in love with me. I have some feelings for her, too, but they're not really intense. I'm kinda attached and it's for mostly physiological reasons. Given how much she hangs out with guys and has that narrow range of conversational topics she's comfortable in, she's gonna be flitting around from man flower to man flower in undergrad. On top of that, I'm not the most entertainig or fun guy, I just have a large **** and I'm sort of good looking. I'm a gigantic nerd, otherwise.
What really, really sucks about this girl is that the only reason I'm with her is because my other options graduated university and do not live near me. On top of that, all my male friends are friends with her (all my female friends hate her, though, lol) and she's gonna be ****ing all of them as soon as I'm done with this. She has an obv crush on my best friend/main wingman and he wants to **** her, too, but he said he's not gonna since we're so tight. Once I breakup with this girl, I don't want to see her again, and that's unlikely since all my boys are basically her orbiters. She knows waaay too much about me at this point.
The only strong points of this girl are that she likes me for me, she's super affectionate, really sweet, honest, the sex is awesome, and she's really ****ing cute. Conversationally, it isn't great, man. She only talks about herself or sexuality. No wonder dudes love her, lol.
What should I do, guys?
I seduced the hell out of this chick (let's call her Kim) at a party several weeks ago. I grinded her, I had my hands in her pants throughout the party, and she was TOTALLY digging the attention doing that deep gaze, kissing me, and being all smiles. The day after, Kim ignored my text. I bump into Kim at a party that same day and she totally blows me off, but who cares, I'm out making out with a girl that looks like a model and getting model girl's best friend's number (whoops, lol). She isn't very controlled in her attempts to ignore me, though, as she texts me her my number the following Sunday.
Kim and I end up running into each other the next Monday at a conference, and boom, she's like "hey blueline" while I'm trying to ignore her because, while she is cute, she is 19 and the model girl is way hotter/more mature/probably smarter. After the conference is over, she starts talking to me and talks about how she was just drunk last Friday and doesn't want to get into anything with me. I'm like "OK, whatever." However, at the party after the conference, I sit on a couch next to her and boom the kino is on like a mother****er. She tries to kiss me at the end, but claims I'm too tall, and walks off muttering something about how I'm such a vain, hot man (LOL). I also find out she's got some crazy psychological issues this day and has underdeveloped social skills (not autistic, just bad conversational ability).
The next day, we hang out at starbucks and I'm just starring this girl down letting her talk about whatever and I just keep going "uh huh, yeah, hmmm, OK, oh really" in a deep, soft voice. I'm feeling her legs up with my foot. Eventually, she just says "I need to see you somewhere more private" and we makeout hardcore in my car. I drop her off at her place after we agree to **** the next day when roommates are out of the picture.
On the day we're supposed to ****, she sends me a text saying "I created a pro/con chart of ****ing you and the pros def outweigh the cons, so come over." I'm thinking "wtfffff ***** what is wrong with you? why are you making charts about this?", but I come over anyways. The sex is surprisingly really good, so I continue ****ing w/ no strings attached for the next week or two.
A few weeks in:
Things start getting more involved. She reveals that she has feelings for me and I kinda have some for her, too. She also reveals that she's bipolar (medicated) and has very, very few female friends. She also starts being a bit of a **** when we're around friends trying to put my game down and saying that she thought I was a major creep when we first met right in front of everybody, and that I'm a "fake player." Seconds later, she's making out with me in front of them, grabbing my ****, etc and I totally dig this aspect of her. She really doesn't a give a **** what other people think.
On top of this, I encounter the jealous side of this girl in massive quantities this same week she starts being a **** to me around friends. While carpooling with a female friend, I start talking to my female friend much more than I'm talking to Kim (Kim's has very awkward conversational skills, it's harder to talk to someone that can only talk about her problems with women, sexuality (her sexuality, specifically), relationships, problems with her family, and narrow interests) and the female friend starts hitting on me in front of Kim. After we drop off my female friend, Kim starts bawling saying how she hates women, how I totally ignored her at this political fundraiser (duh, I'm not gonna tailor the conversation towards her narrow scope of conversations she feels comfortable in) remarks about how I treat her like a pitstop.
Now we're officially in a relationship (not on facebook, but we talked about it today) and I think she's in love with me. I have some feelings for her, too, but they're not really intense. I'm kinda attached and it's for mostly physiological reasons. Given how much she hangs out with guys and has that narrow range of conversational topics she's comfortable in, she's gonna be flitting around from man flower to man flower in undergrad. On top of that, I'm not the most entertainig or fun guy, I just have a large **** and I'm sort of good looking. I'm a gigantic nerd, otherwise.
What really, really sucks about this girl is that the only reason I'm with her is because my other options graduated university and do not live near me. On top of that, all my male friends are friends with her (all my female friends hate her, though, lol) and she's gonna be ****ing all of them as soon as I'm done with this. She has an obv crush on my best friend/main wingman and he wants to **** her, too, but he said he's not gonna since we're so tight. Once I breakup with this girl, I don't want to see her again, and that's unlikely since all my boys are basically her orbiters. She knows waaay too much about me at this point.
The only strong points of this girl are that she likes me for me, she's super affectionate, really sweet, honest, the sex is awesome, and she's really ****ing cute. Conversationally, it isn't great, man. She only talks about herself or sexuality. No wonder dudes love her, lol.
What should I do, guys?
