"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What should I do with her?

Nikar

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now, i got the e-mail from this girl(a HB9) a month ago. We've been exchanging mails ever since.
I was about to ask her out until recently that I noticed something : everytime she replied to my mail, the subject title would be prefixed with a "FW" instead of "RE".
One example is....

FW : How are you?

In e-mail clients(she uses Hotmail), the FW prefix appears in the subject title only when the user clicks the "Forward" button.....WHICH MEANS SHE FORWARDED ALL MY E-MAILS TO HER FRIENDS??!!!
(the Bcc field doesn't appear, so it seems that she places her friends' e-mail in the Bcc field as well!)

I think the case is pretty clear cut. She doesn't take me seriously by doing all these mail forwarding crap. Betraying my privacy and trust in her, playing me like some clown.

I really wanna give her a slap and next her, but I don't wanna give up on her totally.
I mean, I can just LJBF her cos' she's pretty challenging and tough. :D

So, guys....I'll be meeting her next week. What should I do regarding this e-mail forwarding thing?
Confront her and see what she has to say?

Thanks for all your help!
nikar.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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You might have it all wrong.

I think, though I'm not 100% sure of this, that FWD and RE have the same effect, and FWD doesn't send it to all her friends.

Any geeks out there who know?
 

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does it matter?

So, guys....I\'ll be meeting her next week. What should I do regarding this e-mail forwarding thing?
Confront her and see what she has to say?
Why do you care about the way of a e-mail topic was written??

I think it is more productive if you keep seeing this woman face to face in the reality realm than just worrying about something through the internet. You should really be worried about what she thinks about you after hou have had something phyisical & deeper with her.

Meanwhile, IIsuggest you read the DJ Bible and keep your man to woman interactions off the internet. It is worthless, seriously.

greetings
 

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wow, man. if u called her on that, and it turned out not to be the case.... heh. let's just say that'd suck.

I would just be your hot, DJ self when you meet her and start from square one there. You'll be able to tell by the end if she's for real or if you're just the current "joke" within her circle of girlfriends.

haaaaaaaveee fun.

-JP
 

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WTF are you doing man its been 1 month you should have f**ked her already or at the very least got her phone number. Get her phone number and call her forget about emailing..............
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nikar

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Why do you care about the way of a e-mail topic was written??
nah, i used to ignore it at first, but then, there's always a "FW" in front and i started to suspect some things isn't right.

actually, i'm not so overworked or hot about it....i just am curious why she's doing this and i'm gonna ask her in a nice way about it.

WTF are you doing man its been 1 month you should have f**ked her already or at the very least got her phone number. Get her phone number and call her forget about emailing..............
nah Black_Italian.....i know it's almost one month already, and i'm fastening my pace these few days.
i mean, the first few times, i waited for several days before replying, and she waited too.....thus the long delay in between mails, and though it's almost one month, we barely sent too much mails.

i'm gonna ask for the phone no. soon and take it from there, but i don't really wanna fcuk her, though! i'm in this more for a serious r/s, and if i wanna fcuk, i could have done it with other girls. :)

thanks guys!
nikar.
 

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Have you ever heard of a phrase

"ignorance is bliss"

Take it to heart because who cares if shes doing this or that... she's not your GF and therefore not obligated to treat you with dignity...

You main aim is to seduce her... once she's seduce, these little childish games she once played will just be one of those funny moments in both of your lives... (potentially)
 
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